Apologies in advance for not replying to your messages. We're busy doing ministry in other platforms. We do plan to make a short movie or streaming of cyber bullying.
If you've been bullied on this site, feel free to send a message. Or if you're a screenwriter, please reach out. We have a full crew with 100s of imdb credits and years in the film industry.
In case this profile is banned, please feel free to post your bully stories here. We will check once in a while and possibly contact you.
- When you associate with the bullies in the chat rooms, you're likely turning off potential mates that may be observing you. Pick better friends-especially those who are kind to everyone. Kind people will likely not stay single for too long. They leave this site and the chat rooms are left with the same chat gatekeeper/bullies who been here for many years.
-Furthermore, there are members that visit here who are already successful in dating IRL. They may just be looking for potential mates for their single friends who are not members of this site. You may have been losing good opportunities because you decided to subordinate to the gatekeepers of the chat rooms.
-You know this. You really shouldn't get dating advice from chat members here who have been single (and on this site) for too many years.
-For those who are trying to marry someone from the USA, you missed many chances. We actually have a vetted group of singles who want to marry from your country. Once again, you should pick better friends who actually have communities of mature minded single Christians.
-There are "gatekeepers" that interrogate members. They project their own emotions accusing other members. These are senior adults (many who been on this site for 10-15+ years).
-Racism. Members got bullied for using foreign dialects saying "Jesus loves you.". Ironic that non-USA members started to join in on the bullying--calling foreign languages "gibberish".
-Then they complain that the chat rooms have been "going bad". New members are pressured to subordinate to the chat cliques gatekeepers. Can only imagine that this cliquesh behavior can alienate new members, especially people from foreign countries with limited English.
*** In contrast, many members have successfully found their marital partners on this site. It's not the chat that's the problem, it's probably you.***
-There's also rumors of suicides because of the bullying in the chat rooms. Long time members here have tried to dispute it claiming it as false. But we may never know. Perhaps Jesus will reveal it someday.
Note: If this profile ever gets banned, know that whoever reports this profile has gotten in the way of a "praying for healing" and "praying for the singles" ministries. There are sick people who visit the chat rooms that get bullied--instead of getting prayed for.
They didn't have much money to send any invitations. Yet, many people packed that little church bringing many gifts. Awesome thing is those wedding party attendees (many singles) got to hear about God's love being the source for a happy marriage.
It was amazing to attend a wedding of a couple that met here.
They don't tell people that they met on this site so people don't assume that you'll find love here just by frequenting chats and forums. That couple that met here actually were here for ministry. And they vetted and prayed for each other for many years. And yes, they overcame hundreds of miles of a long distance relationship.
If you're outspoken on this site, people will report you. Prayed for those people anyways and their families. Also forgiven them, for it's obvious that many people visit this site because they go through struggles. But be careful out there. The person you mistreat might be praying good things for you.
Evil will never leave the house of one who pays back evil for good. -Proverbs 17:13
Austin, if you ever see this. Know that I'll keep visiting this site as a reminder to pray for you.
