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SHANTEL7 View Profile	how do i know? Posted : 14 Dec, 2008 09:32 PM WHEN A WOMANS INTERESTED IN YOU SHE WANTS TO KNOW EVERY THING, FROM THE NAME OF YOUR FIRST PET...TO YOUR FAVORITE SHOW, IF SHE NEVER GETS BORED AND CONTINUES TO ASK ABOUT WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON THEN YOU KNOW...BUT IF SHES VAGUE WHEN YOU ASK HER QUESTIONS AND GIVES YOU ONE WORD ANSWERS THEN YOU KNOW SHES NOT.. BETTER TO THE POINT YOU'LL KNOW WHEN YOU PRAY FOR HER AS MUCH OR MORE THAN YOU PRAY FOR YOURSELF.. IF YOU DONT DO THAT THEN YOU SHOULDN'T WORRY ABOUT HER INTEREST IN YOU... AMEN???
SHANTEL7 View Profile	SUBMISSIVE??? Posted : 14 Dec, 2008 03:05 PM HOW DO YOU VIEW THIS??? ALOT OF MEN THAT I MEET OR DATE..TAKE THIS TO THE EXTREME THEY WANT A WOMAN WHO IS GOING TO STAY HOME AND MANAGE IT... (WHICH IS OK) BUT WHAT ABOUT WHEN GOD CALLS YOU TO DO SOMETHING OUTSIDE OF THE HOME?? WHAT IF YOU DECIDE TO HAVE CHILDREN STAY HOME WITH THEM AND WORK OUTSIDE THE HOME WHEN THEY GO OFF TO SCHOOL?? DO YOU IGNORE YOUR CALLIN (IF ITS A TRUE CALLING FROM GOD) TO PLEASE YOUR HUSBAND AND SILENT REGRET IT?? HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS??.. AND WHAT MAKES MORE SENSE TO YOU??

SHANTEL7 View Profile	SURVEY TIME- PART 2: What do you know about LOVE? Posted : 14 Dec, 2008 10:44 AM (1) SECURITY.. A RELIEF THAT SOMEONE ELSE PRAYS AS INTENSELY FOR YOU AS YOU DO FOR THEM. (2) MOTIVATION I GUESS SEEING OTHERS HAPPY, KNOWING WHAT GOD WANTS FOR US (3) LOVE MEANS BEING HURT..IT INSURESS IT EVEN..AND I HESITATE (4) I DONT THINK I TRUELY HAVE (5)NOT SURE I HAD ONE.. (6) NOT CONVERTING (7) WANTING TO FEEL THAT POUNDING OF THE HEART..CANT STOP SMILING WHEN YOU HEAR THEIR NAME (8)BEING ABLE TO SPEAK FREELY WITH OUT FEAR OF REJECTION (9)NOT SURE (10) WELL I GUESS WE ARE ALL INCOMPLETE IN THE EYES OF THE LORD SO YEAH I GUESS SO.. (11) IF YOUR NOT DEPENDEANT ON THE OTHER PERSON JUST LITTLE BIT THEN IT WONT WORK (12)NO WAY THERE ARE NO LIMITS TO IT (13)THAT CAN BE TRICKY (14)WELL HE WANTS US TO BE FULLY CONTENT AND DEPENDANT ON HIM SO UNTILL WE REACH THAT POINT WHERE ALL WE NEED IS HIM...HE WONT SEND THE RIGHT PERSON TO US RIGHT??
SHANTEL7 View Profile	SURVEY TIME! What seals the deal for you? Posted : 14 Dec, 2008 10:34 AM (4) YOU KNOW THAT MOMENT OF THE FIRST DATE WHEN YOUR NOT REALLY OVERLY ATTRACTED TO THE OTHER PERSON, BUT THEN THEY SAY SOMETHING WHILE SMILEING THAT SHY SMILE, AND IT MAKES YOU SWOON..AND YOU GO OK MAYBE THIS PERSON IS WORTH MY TIME AFTER ALL..THIS HAPPENS ALOT WHEN WE CARRY OUR BAGGAGE FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS INTO THE NEXT ONE, WE'RE ALWAYS ON OUR TOES, LIKE THIS IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE...
SHANTEL7 View Profile	UN EQUALLY YOKED Posted : 13 Dec, 2008 11:47 PM I DATED THIS MAN FOR A WHILE AND IT WAS THE BEST RELATIONSHIP I'D EVER HAD.. I DECIDED TO LOOK PAST THE FACT THAT HE WAS A MUSLIM.. NOT JUST ANY MUSLIM BUT A PAKISTANIAN MUSLIM..HE WAS 38 AND HIS MOTHER DECIDED IT WAS TIME FOR HIM TO MARRY.. A NICE MUSLIM GIRL(A MAIL ORDER BRIDE BASICALLY) WE NEVER REALLY DISCUSSED IT WE NEVER REALLY BROKE UP.. BUT WE DRIFTED WHICH PROVED THERE WAS NO REALL SUBSTANCE THERE TO BEGIN WITH AND HOW COULD THERE BE WE VEIWED CHRIST AS TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.. IT TAUGHT ME A LESSON (1) DOING YOUR WILL AND NOT GODS MEANS YOU WILL SURELY FAIL(2) IF YOU HAVE TO MAKE EXCUSSES IT'S DOOMED (3) BEING UN EQUALLY YOKED IS NOT LIVING IN ACCORDANCE TO GOD.