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italianscool View Profile	ask a guy Posted : 2 Aug, 2008 09:42 PM I always see the opposite. I see women who go for the jerks instead of the good guys. I hear women say they want a good man but when they come across one,they just want to be "friends" with them.The woman then goes for the guy who will treat them like garbage. Ive had women tell me im a great guy,a nice guy,a sweet guy but they only want to be my friends.I can be nice and sweet but that doesnt mean im boring,soft,and without a spine! Good guys get no respect! LOL We are gentlemen but that doesnt make us pushovers.There are plenty of us out there who would love to have a woman treat us good. Im tired of being treated like garbage.
italianscool View Profile	A Struggle Posted : 1 Aug, 2008 11:43 PM I have struggled when i have tried to witness to non believers on youtube. I have tried to witness to athiests and satanists and all they do is curse at me and get angry.I dont judge them or get mean with them, i just tell them that i believe God is real and that he loves them.I tell them that Jesus died for them and they call me every name in the book! I dident expect them to get saved on the spot,but they had such hatred for me. I just feel that we christians should get out of our comfort zone and start bringing the gospel to everyone. Its hard though, when you try to show them Gods love and you only get negative responses. I sometimes wonder if i should even bother, but then again, what if noone does? God loves them and wants to save them just like he saved us. I will keep you in my prayers sister please keep me in yours. May God send us all where we should go.

italianscool View Profile	Why dont women respond back? Posted : 1 Aug, 2008 11:21 PM Thank you everyone for the advice and encouragement. It just gets hard at times you know? Its gets hard trying to know people off the internet as well. The women i meet all say im a great guy and nice and sweet but they just want to be friends. Im starting to think alot of women think a good guy,nice guy,sweet guy = boring guy, wimpy guy and one who has no backbone and im not those things.I am a gentleman but i am not a pushover. Lets all just pray that our Lords perfect will be done for all of us.I hope and pray that everyone ,including the ones who dident respond to me, will find the ones that God has chosen for them. God bless you sisters who added your input. I hope you all get what your looking for! :prayingm:
italianscool View Profile	ABORTION Posted : 19 Jul, 2008 07:18 PM God did forgive you sister and someday, i believe you will be reunited with that child. I know im just a guy and havent been through what you have, but your child is with the Lord. Your child is in good hands,the best of hands! Its not over sister! You will hold that child someday! We have all made mistakes in our lives, but praise God! He loves us and is willing to forgive us. I know women who still feel guilty about the abortions they had,even after the repentence.I know im just a guy and i cant totally understand what a women feels or goes through when they have an abortion,but i felt like i had to reply to you. God loves you sister and he loves that child.
italianscool View Profile	Why dont women respond back? Posted : 16 Jul, 2008 10:34 AM I have been on this site for about a year now. I have written to many women and with the exception of a few ladies,they almost never write back.I dont expect every woman to be interested, but it would be nice if they atleast said thanks,but no thanks in a nice way.We are supposed to be christians here amen? If someone has the courage to approach you,dont just ignore them and act like they are not there,just say thank you, but i dont think we would make a good match. Thats just my opinion anyway.