Here I am!

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Body Type
A Few Extra Pounds
Hair Color
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Church Name
Mayfield Road Baptist Church
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Do you drink?
1 or 2 on occasion
Willing to relocate?
No way
Marital Status
Do you have children?
Do you want children?
Education Level
2 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Vinyl Graphics Design
History, writing, shooting, music, camping, watching TV, movies
About Me
A lot of women can't get past the hair on my face. I understand, that's cool, but if you can get beyond it, underneath you will find a very loving sincere man who will treat you well, no matter if we end up dating or not.

I am a Christ-follower but fail him daily, sometimes hourly. Last year was probably the worst year ever for me, being perfectly honest here and laying it all out for the next potential mate. I survived cancer, but my marriage, my business, and my finances did not. Though it was shaken, one thing that I have kept is my faith. My faith that somewhere in all of this God has me. He has a plan for me. I often wish that I knew what it was, but I continue to do my best to just go where He leads. I believe that men should hold each other up. Where I often fail is accepting help from others to keep me up. It is easy to want to hold others up, but hard to live in humility. 

I have a sarcastic sense of humor and have been accused of not having much of a filter. You can look at this as I am a mean spirited guy or you can look at is I am an honest person. It really is about perspective. I really enjoy writing (if the long profile doesn't show that) but find that I don't have as much time as I used to, and it is something that I don't enjoy when I'm sad or angry.

I LOVE EVERYONE! I am commanded by my God to love everyone, so this above all is something that I very much try to attain. Some people are easier to love than others, but I do my best. I am a hugger, I believe that there is more healing power in a hug than all other forms of medicine. I am a bit introverted until I get to know people, I force myself to get to know people. Because of this I sometimes seem as if I am coming on a little strong. I am a bit random. I am very secure in my masculinity and enjoy masculine things. (Machines, tools, weapons, hair on my face, etc.)

I am a hairy guy. After losing my hair and beard to Chemotherapy, I decided that one of my acts of defiance against cancer would be that I would grow my hair and beard long. I know it is kind of silly, but it is me. I enjoy playing Santa Claus for kids whose parents might not otherwise be able to afford a picture with Santa. I like having my own beard for that as well. I say this because I realize that it is a deal-breaker for some.

There is only one deal-breaker for me: if you don't love my children, you can't love me. Ideally, I'm looking for someone that I can relate to. My perfect mate would be someone who puts Christ above everything. A princess that I can turn into a queen. I'm not a rich man and probably never will be, so I'm looking for someone to accept that. If I'm being superficial I am physically attracted to women who are shorter and younger than me. I am also very attracted to intelligence and wisdom. Again there are no deal breakers for me, but I really don't like what smoking does to a woman (it is awful on your skin, voice, your smell, not to mention your general health), (I quit 10 years ago) so I will try to convince you to quit.
First Date
Truthfully the background could be anything, the perfect setting for a first meeting is one that leads to a second. The perfect first meeting would be one where the conversation came naturally. All first meetings have those awkward first moments where both parties are trying to think of the right things to say, the right way to portray their body language, etc. For me, the perfect setting would be one in which we get past that very quickly and become comfortable with one another right away. Perfect would be where we find commonalities quickly and can enjoy the conversation or activity. 
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