CaleW
JESUS is the KING of kings. Please read my bio below. GOD Bless you
- Gender
- Male | 49
- Country
- United States
- City
- Rosemead
- State
- California
- Height
- 5'9"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 49
- Eye Color
- Blue
- Body Type
- Average
- Hair Color
- Brown
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Christian Reformed
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Grace Community Church
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Nazarene
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- No way
- Marital Status
- Divorced
- Do you have children?
- Yes but they're grown
- Do you want children?
- Undecided/Open
- Education Level
- Some College
- My Profession
- Jesus, Retired Army, Property Management, Transportation
- Interests
- Jesus, My Son, Bible, Church, Sports
- About Me
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Hello. I hope and pray your day is going well. Sorry for the long description, but I keep adding and editing when I think of something else relevant. I am basically giving some of my life story but also preaching the Gospel message and other faithful things because, in my humble opinion, I think there are many “cultural christians” here or just straight up scammers, and also, unfortunately, false Christians in most “churches” and most are truly not Born Again Believers. I just want to be honest and help people be cautious of others making claims of Christ. And I think honesty and transparency from the beginning is helpful. After all, this is the second most important moment in life. The first being truly repenting of your sins with a godly sorrow and believing on Jesus for the remission of sins and being born again and receiving a regenerated heart and new life. The simple Gospel message, Jesus died for sinners. I am a dreadful sinner. If you want to know more about me you can also watch John MacArthur videos on YouTube. I go to his church here in SoCal. We have a seminary on our campus, the Master’s Seminary, and if you are in need of a good Church we have a Church finder option with a worldwide database of Churches that have Pastors that have graduated from our seminary. Just plug in your zip code or city on this website site: https://tms.edu/find-a-church/. I have used this many times when traveling. You can also check out videos by Paul Washer, Voddie Baucham, Justin Peters. Voddie Baucham especially gets me stirred up for the beauty and power and benefits of marriage and the godly family, the way Yahweh intended it to be. He says he wishes he was born married 😂. Me too!
My favorite Bible verse is Matthew 6:33, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you”. This sums up my life mission and made life more focused and streamlined instead of pursuing so many other things with Christ not as the main focus. And He has by far provided for me abundantly (mostly spiritual things but also plenty of material things). He has had far better plans than I could ever come up with. My life is abundantly full, except in the very important area of a Wife. I try my best to seek God first in all things and surrender all things to Him in every area of my life. I am very imperfect at this but I try to make it a daily top priority as well as killing my sin and dying to self. It has been amazing how God seems to make things fall into place in my life when I put Him first, and also even when I don’t put Him first He is still unreasonably patient with me. I became a born again believer and follower of Christ in 2004 when I was going through a separation and eventual divorce. I know divorce is not great news but that’s a part of my life. I hate divorce. I have a sensitive heart for people struggling in their marriage. I am currently managing an apartment building and so far I have been able to give some help and encouraging words to four families that were headed for divorce. God also hates divorce: Malachi 2:16 “For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence”. (Uncomfortably honest and rough section coming up). Being young and both my Wife and I were in the Army and neither of us were believers. I made a lot of mistakes, including immaturity and impatience, and very unfortunately committing adultery. This was back in 1998. Even as an unbeliever at the time I was not pursuing other women but I ended up in compromising positions made worse with alcohol. But I am still responsible for my actions. Now I don’t drink alcohol at all. We stayed together until 2004, but then she asked me to leave the home and she pursued the divorce. It was never what I wanted and I am truly sorry for my actions. I am still reading the Bible about marriage, divorce, and remarriage. She is still an unbeliever and I think I fall under 1 Corinthians 7:15 to Biblically allow for divorce and the breaking of the marriage bond by the unbeliever and also, remarriage is assumed. 1 Cor 7:12-15 ……. that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not divorce her husband. …….. 15 Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave. The brother or the sister is not enslaved in such cases, but God has called us to peace
Since then I have been reading the Bible and going to church very solidly since 2004 and my life is very different from what it used to be. But I am still soooooo imperfect and still make many mistakes. I can be like Peter and make great boasts and then fall on my face. But I repent and try my best to turn fully from my sins and turn fully to Jesus. And now I look to tell others about Jesus and I’m looking for my other half to patiently help me with this very important job. And it is not glamorous sometimes. I’m a simple, laid back, and patient guy with a good sense of humor, at least I think so lol. I am honest and open in my conversations and I feel like I pay attention to people and their words and make them feel comfortable quickly. I am looking for a future wife with a gentle and quiet spirit, sweet and submissive and supportive, just like the Bible says. She is of great value. A woman that is also looking for a future husband to be the Priest, Prophet, Provider, and Protector of the family as Pastor Voddie would say. It is the man’s back that is designed to carry the family. It is the woman’s heart that is designed to be the soft and nurturing side of the family. Both completely equal in importance. Women’s glory is found in Christ and in her husband and in her children. Women alone have the ability for child birth. What is more glorious then that? Can you cook………. (and clean lol?) and truly and deeply enjoy staying home and loving on your family and kids and fighting the world and protecting our kids from inside the home and giving your godly husband peace and joy while he fights the world on the outside of the home at his job (and also inside the home of course) by supporting the direction of the family and not running the streets looking for fulfillment in other things outside the home? I am looking to lead my wife and wash her with the Word. If you honestly have little or no interest in submitting to your husband and supporting him and allowing him to lead (which is all out rebellion against God and I have serious questions to any of your claims of Christ….. or you have been deeply misled by society and Satan), then I am not the one for you. And I will promise to do my best, very imperfectly, to fulfill my role as the husband and love my wife as Christ loves the Church as we also mutually submit to each other.
My Son graduated from Arizona State University in 2023 and is still living in Arizona. My prayer is that he will come back and live with me until he finds a Wife. He is an excellent young man and claiming to be a Christian. But I think he is still stuck as a cultural Christian and his heart has truly not been regenerated and reborn yet but I am not sure because only GOD knows the heart. I am still trying to help him build up his own individual faith in Jesus and pull out and beat down all the schemes of Satan and society in his heart. But truly regeneration and being born again is only a gift of God. God predestined before all creation who His children would be. We did not choose to be physically born in this world and we don’t choose to be born again either. It is completely a work of God. Of course I don’t understand how all of this is or how God makes that work together but that’s what scripture says, multiple times. So I believe it. Even if my mind and life experiences don’t agree with scripture. Is the Scripture wrong and I am right? May it never be! Scripture is true and I am mistaken some how. I choose to believe the Bible as the inspired Word of God. Every book of the 66 books has 2 authors (Psalms has multiple authors of course), God and the physical hand of the man that the Holy Spirit uses. Perfectly. After being born again, from above, we have the responsibility to show external fruit the rest of our lives showing that internal change and new light and new birth, Matt 5:16. And that is nothing more then doing my duty as a faithful slave of God. (Slaves are owned and even adopted by God and only serve God as 1 Master. Servants can have multiple masters.) Soooooo Very challenging for my Son in this crazy world full of unbelieving friends and unbelieving family members and constant worldly temptations. I go back and forth sometimes on whether I would like to have more kids with a future Wife. That could be a discussion. It could work out if she would already have kids of her own that we could form a blended family together. But if we do have more kids we could help populate the earth and the Kingdom with righteous and God fearing kids, God willing. They are such an amazing blessing.
I am also retired from the Army. I did get my trucking license recently and I am still navigating how this will fit into my life. It’s possible (being married sometime in the future, God willing) my wife could ride along with me whenever she wanted to and we could travel and have fun and witness to people and see the country together. And possibly switching to local truck driving some time in the future to be home every night. I also want to start buying rental properties around the central Illinois area. Oh yes, my Son and I are huge sports fans. I definitely try to be reasonable with my fandom and not lose sight of more important things but it is a fun connection with my Son and family members and friends. He actually completed a degree in sports journalism but now has shifted his focus and wants to be a professional basketball referee. I grew up in southeast Wisconsin but only about 90 minutes from Chicago and so I spent my childhood with the ‘85 Bears, Michael Jordan and the Bulls, and the lovable loser Cubbies. And my Son has spent his entire pre-college life in Los Angeles but he has adopted all my Chicago sports teams. Fun times.
Have patience. Seek God first and His righteousness. Keep Believing God is who He says He is. Don’t be unequally yoked. I know personally the long lasting effects of being unequally yoked. I have been praying for my Son’s future wife since he was 3 years old. I pray he is married only 1 time. Pray for a godly husband for yourself and pray earnestly for your kids and their future spouse. Then walk out that true faith in front of them before the world grabs them by the back of the neck and drags them into a pit.
Hopefully I haven’t bored you to tears with my rambling (and Preaching). But I’m guessing (and hoping) this long description will cut down and run off some of the wishy washy, shallow, or so called “christians” (in name only) that are not really interested in true repentance and submission and obedience to our Creator. They have worshipped the creation instead of the Creator. And I get to preach the Gospel message. I believe there are many deceived people here on this app and they are not truly a Born Again Believer. I am not trying to sound overly harsh or unloving. It is actually loving to speak the truth. Life is not a game. God is Holy and so serious about righteousness and sin. We practice the things of faith for our own lives first and then for everyone else we encounter the rest of our lives. Be ready at all times to tell someone about the hope that is in you. This takes training and practice. Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant were ferocious in practice. But they were ready for game time. I am not at all advocating for them as godly men but their work ethic and professionalism are admirable for how Christians should work out their salvation with fear and trembling. Our quiet time and study time and prayer time is the practice time. Our living out our life and encountering and evangelizing people is the game time. Do you fall apart in times of trouble and trials? Do you really and truly know and trust God? True faith is not shown in times of peace but in times of war (trials/trouble). Be ready Saints.
And lastly, (finally, I can see the finish line lol) unfortunately I am not really looking for a long distance relationship (unless GOD intervenes to in some way, I want what HE wants), even though I find all ethnicities and skin colors to be beautiful. And I am not relocating so I would want to engage and communicate with someone within a reasonable distance. I could not do a long engagement period and wait years to get married. That seems unwise. Just get married. And I’m not really looking to make friends with many females. I think that is building up the wrong practice. God Bless you
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