EggheadIQ
Looking to finally do everything right from the start
- Gender
- Male | 49
- Country
- United States
- City
- Queen Creek
- State
- Arizona
- Height
- 5'10"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 49
- Eye Color
- Green
- Body Type
- A Few Extra Pounds
- Hair Color
- Brown
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Non-Denominational
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Generation
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Divorced
- Do you have children?
- Yes
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- Specialty/Trade School
- My Profession
- IT Consultant
- Interests
- hiking, biking, road trips, billiards, bowling, coaching, volunteering, board games, church
- About Me
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An ex-girlfriend called me a Grizzlicorn. Her reason...... I’m a big, strong, bear of a man, that could eat you alive if I wanted, but instead I just want to make people feel special and loved. At the same time, she said no one could guess that from my dating profile.
So, I’m changing things up and seeing what happens. I’m still dating with a purpose, looking for that woman who will be my partner until one of us kicks the bucket. Thus, I don’t ignore red flags, and I do have a list of must haves. I hope you do too. At the same time, I’m hoping this shows more of the other aspects of my personality.
Once I feel comfortable with someone, I’m a mixed bag. I’m sometimes a goofball. Other times I’m deep and intellectual. I’m rarely moody, and I try to stay positive. I’m kind of that “silver lining” type of guy. When things go wrong, I just consider that part of the “adventure” and roll with the punches. If it’s really bad, I just think of the ways it could have been worse. Gratitude is the key to happiness. If you’re my match, you already knew that.
I’m a guy that loves helping and serving other people. I coach soccer, I volunteer at my church, I mentor troubled teens. My calendar stays pretty full. I’m also the guy that you hope drives by if you’re stranded on the side of the road. (Look at my pics, those big legs came from pushing many cars 😉)
When I’m home alone, I like to watch inspirational sports movies, Christian movies, cheesy Hallmark movies, and sometimes documentaries or science shows. I’m a big sap, big jock, and a big nerd. I cry when a character does that sacrificial or honorable thing, or when someone confronts a regret. That’s probably because I have too many regrets myself. I’m trying to just consider them all life lessons that are setting me up for the next phase of my life.
I have 2 kids still at home (12 and 14) When they are with me, besides coaching their sports teams, we like to have family game night or play sports at the park, and occasionally do some family cooking. I try to eat mostly Keto, and intermittently fast. I’m good about 75% of the time.
When I have a partner, and my kids are at their moms (every other week) I like to take road trips to scenic locations and places we can hike. I hike alone for exercise and on Sundays for Solitude (time alone with God), but I’ve found that hiking a new place alone just makes me lonely. I need to share those new places with someone else. On those car rides, I like to listen to sermons and podcasts about topics that stir up deep conversations. Then I like to have those conversations on those hikes. It’s a really good way to get to know a person.
I have, on many occasions, been accused of being “too good to be true” or even “phony” or "fake". That used to be annoying and hurtful, because I'm always genuine. Now, I hope people will be drawn in to figure out what the REAL truth is because the closer they study me, the more they will see that God is the answer. There’s a lyric in a worship song, “If you knew me then, you’d believe me now” That’s the case with me. My past is far from perfect, but I believe in new beginnings. I’m not winding down; I’m just getting started on version 2.0. I finally have learned how to live, and now I just want to share that with everyone, especially those people who never had anyone really teach them anything about life, like kids in foster care and people in prison.
If I’m being honest, the number one thing I’m looking for in a woman is someone who’s looking for someone like me. Some people drink and do drugs, I get off by seeing the surprise on someone’s face when I am generous or dependable. I’m not normal. I never feel the compulsion to just fit in. I’m ok with being weird. It’s not a mental disorder, I am the way I am on purpose. If you ever ask why I did something, 90% of the time, I could give a 5-minute monologue about all the thoughts that went into that decision. You might be surprised how deep this still water runs
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