DetroitRedd
Transparent, Communicative, Redeemed, Divorced Gentleman who Seeks a Best Friend for Life - Not a Se
- Gender
- Male | 62
- Country
- United States
- City
- Lawrenceville
- State
- Georgia
- Height
- 5'8"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 62
- Eye Color
- Brown
- Body Type
- Average
- Hair Color
- Salt n Pepper
- Ethnicity
- Black
- Denomination
- Evangelical
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Community Bible Chapel
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Other
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- No way
- Marital Status
- Divorced
- Do you have children?
- Yes but not living at home
- Do you want children?
- Does Not Want Children
- Education Level
- Specialty/Trade School
- My Profession
- Insurance Agent
- Interests
- Old School Music, Jesus Music, Singing, Traveling, Family, Concerts
- About Me
-
I'm someone who is for real about whatever I do, especially with a relationship and marriage. I learned that women can be game-players and not know what they want, just like men. Even when they stand at an alter and say, "I do." I've also learned that being Christians holds no guarantees in matrimony. What is guaranteed is Salvation because of Calvary. The leaves how we walk this "pilgrim's journey" all up to us as individuals or as a couple and we can be just as venerable to life's pitfalls and attacks as those who don't profess Christ. Sad, but true, eh? A good rule of thumb, single or married is, "Be doers of the Word and not hearers, only...DECEIVING yourself", or one another. Been there, experienced that, to'e up the t'shirt!
I like to talk, share, and be real in a relationship. I believe the Word that says, "Love your wife as Christ loves the Church", and loving your wife as you love your own body - IT IS WRITTEN. What's NOT written is treat each other like a "king or queen." That ain't necessary if you're following what Ephesians says, MAN. She may FEEL like a queen, but that's alright, too! LOL
I ain't trying to preach, but I AM tired of getting preached at by some of these "holier than thou" women. I've been getting scrutinized for being "Separated" and I'll clarify a "thang or two" on that. My estranged and I have been separated for almost 4 years now. She left to go home for a visit and never made any concrete plan to return! The reality is (if you watch TLC's 90-day Fiancé) she got here and really didn't like leaving her home country and really wasn't in love with me enough want to live here. So, after almost half of a 10 year marriage has been spent living apart, I've decided to, "Let it go! Looks like another Love TKO!"
Abandonment took place and that was even BEFORE leaving to go back home. And until I'm in a new relationship, headed toward matrimony, I'm going to STAY separated and keep claiming my marital status - OKAY?! 
Why be by myself and having to start paying Uncle Sam "alimony!" 
I was getting off of these kind of sights for the scrutiny, but WHY?! As Wicked Pickett said, "If you don't like it, don't knock it
Somebody else, might go and rock it!" HEY!!!
- First Date
- A mall food court chat AFTER a afternoon matinee to discuss the movie, stuff, and "talk trash" - as my granddad would say. (Not to be confused with trash talking!)
One subject to get out of the way is spiritual compatibly I'm not Pentecostal - Charismatic. Don't embrace Prosperity Teaching, Metaphysics (aka speaking things into existence) or the Power of Positive Thinking Gospel. I also don't speak "Christian-ese" - that where you say all the religious euphemisms to sound super spiritual. And if you consider yourself, "Spiritual but not religious", I AM NOT ASHAMED OF THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST!
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