SmilesDJ23

Be the reason someone smiles!

Gender
Male | 27
Country
United States
City
REDLANDS
State
California
Height
6'3"
Last Login Date
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Age
27
Eye Color
Brown
Body Type
Big & Tall/BBW
Hair Color
Black
Ethnicity
African American
Denomination
United
Looking For
A Long Term Relationship
Church Name
The One
Church Attendance
On special occasion
Church Raised In
Baptist
Do you drink?
No
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
No way
Marital Status
Single
Do you have children?
No
Do you want children?
Want Children
Education Level
2 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Warehouse
Interests
Gym, Sports, Convo
About Me
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SELF-SUMMARY
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My closest friends would describe me as someone who is weird, dorky, yet reliable and willing to be there for them in a pinch. However, they just think I am quirky because I always have the need to tell jokes, no matter what the occasion is.

Some people say I am funny enough to do Stand-up Comedy, but that's probably because I'm a stand-up individual. 😎

Well, isn't that special? πŸ˜‚

I have lived a sedentary lifestyle for most of my life. I have recently started going to the gym 400 to 250 and still improving and gaining muscles.

I consider myself a serious-enough Christian but not a "Super Christian to the point I'm going to Church three times a week, always trying to save souls, and always being covered from head-to-toe. I occasionally like to show off my bare shoulders and knee caps from time-to-time. 😊Im not here to change or force anything on anyone just had to throw that out there lol.

I am a modern man , which means that I believe a woman should be able to work outside the home; pursue her career without anyone holding her back. Only support from me.

According to Match test , I am 75% choleric and 25% melancholic; however, I am not sure if that's entirely accurate. The results say that I am more extroverted than introverted, but I believe that I am actually the opposite. However, the results also say that I am a natural leader and decisive. What does this mean for you? I am good at planning and being organized, and you will never have to spend all day asking me what do I want to eat for dinner. πŸ˜‰

For me, being in the driver's seat can get exhausting, and I truly prefer to leave that at the office. Allow me to drive 9-to-5, and you can drive 5-to-9. πŸ˜‰ Just kidding come on that was a good one right?

I enjoy cardio and fitness and take care of my temple. I am also very career-driven. I seek the same in a women

I have a β€œirregular" work schedule, Although The weekends we’re made for spending time and to catch up on sleep I do work those days. Im off Monday-Wednesday I don't mind if I have to wait for the weekdays to see you. In fact, I prefer it that way because that would mean I have something special to look forward to! If you are a shift worker, I would be willing to make time to see you on your schedule. 😊

And for those who care about the Myers-Briggs personality test, I am (ISTJ-A).

Strength of individual traits: Introverted: 59%, Observant: 17%, Thinking: 29%, Judging: 38%, Assertive: 28%.
Role: Sentinel.
Strategy: Confident Individualism.

God bless and may the Lord find you a compatible mate for life. 😊

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WHAT I WANT
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I could start off by saying that I want a women who likes the same music, food, hobbies, sports, TV shows, movies, activities, etc. as I do; but at the end of the day, these are all superficial qualities in a person. It really boils down to how two people get along with one another and what two people long for.

Beyond the chemistry and the connection, two people need to seek compatibility. Common values will always supersede commonalities.

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Ultimately, I would like to find a women who wants a relationship. Someone I can grow with!

I'm looking for courtship and have no interest in going on a bunch of coffee dates to see if we "match."

If I'm good enough to catch your attention, I want to see if you find me funny, smart, sweet, and intriguing enough to keep your attention. 😊

I would like to meet a women who shares the same struggles so we can grow together.


In my city it's really challenging to meet a woman who can keep her word. I don't expect you to be perfect; just don't be a waffler.

I would like to meet a women who is a self-starter and a go-getter but also doesn't mind being pushed to be better because I would like someone to push me to become better.

Modern-day chivalry would be nice, but I would much rather prefer good manners and thoughtfulness.

Oh, and don't forget to have a sense of humor! These jokes can't laugh at themselves!
β€’ Who was the smartest man in the Bible? Abraham - he knew a Lot.
β€’ I know someone who is down-to-earth, literally... because he's dead and buried in the earth.
β€’ I know someone who is laid-back, literally... because he's in the hospital and laying on his back.
β€’ I know someone who is easy-going, literally... because he easily goes where there is trouble.
First Date
I suggest that we meet up a local restaurant for lunch. Maybe, an Asian restaurant where the food is inexpensive and delicious. Then, we would head over to the ceramic & paint, then, we would go out for a smoothie drink afterwards. During the entire time, you could laugh at my jokes; and in exchange, you could make fun of my pottery.

To the ones who are concerned about men using women to get what they want, do not fret; A real man is here !

How would that sound to you? 😊
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