Ayifas001
Deep calls to Deep
- Gender
- Female | 47
- Country
- Jordan
- City
- Amman
- State
- 'Amman
- Height
- 5'6"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 47
- Eye Color
- Brown
- Body Type
- Average
- Hair Color
- Black
- Ethnicity
- African
- Denomination
- Pentecostal
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Oasis
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Pentecostal
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- Ph.D./Doctorate
- My Profession
- Non-Profit
- Interests
- Reading, Singing, Movies, Intelligent Conversation
- About Me
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Hi, thank you for taking the time to read this.
The whole concept of online dating has become quite treacherous, and continues to puzzle me when the kinds of intentions those you meet online have - many are not good, in some cases nasty, disrespectful and presumptuous about why you are on a dating website. Having tried for a while, I am becoming more skeptical about its effectiveness but nonetheless "pressing on towards the goal."
Now let me share what may seem to be a contradiction for some: I am a born again Christian, feminist, activis (for girls/women, sustainable development and peacebuilding), realist and best friend anyone could have. There are so many misconceptions about what some of those terms mean, but if you seek knowledge you will realise that there are sound biblical foundations for them. Also, there is no doubt that God loves all His children equally, is a just God and expects us all to thrive with the gifts and talents without favoritism of any particular group of people. Sounds like a PSA I know, but I know me and I need to tell you about me.
I have been blessed to be in Jordan, yes, the very same one in the Bible, which is part of the holy land and have been here for sometime now. It blows my mind everyday that I get to walk in the very steps Jesus and those of our faith did, and what an uncommon experience I get to have everyday. In terms of how I became a Christian, I think I have a special and interesting story about how I came to faith so that would also be great to swap stories about.
I love movies including fantasy, sci-fi, crime and psychological thrillers etc... transformers, marvel... you name it. Absolutely adore dogs, deep believer in learning and being generous with knowledge and experiences. I have been blessed to be recognised for my work and that's one proof point that I love what I do.... I confess I am a bit of a workaholic as well but hey, a true and loving partner can be a good reason not to invest all of one's attention and effort into work.
Nonetheless, service to humanity both in and outside of church are my key passions and I have been empowered by His grace to do and keep doing both. In church, music and administration are top on my list of service areas and outside church supporting and applying voices of vulnerable groups as well as peace building take my time.
I believe in depth, connection (including beyond distance) and communication. I believe in riding out the tough times as well as the good times. I believe in equal partnership and growth - spiritually and otherwise. Yes! I absolutely love hugs and the love languages.
You know when things seem to confuse you because life is pulling you in so many directions, that happens quite a bit and it takes so much to trust God through all of these. Our life experiences can be so profound and constantly take you on a journey or mountains and valleys.....some of my favorite passages are in Lamentations and Psalms.... those books illustrate the depths of questions, doubt and comfort in the hardest of times.
A relationship with me has to have meaning because beauty is fleeting and we are no doubt in times when even though the physical seems to drive popularity, it doesn't last and we need to stand, encourage one another and be resilient. We both need to see beyond the physical and connect on a spiritual and intellectual first. It is worth reiterating that my life values are extremely important to me so if you're looking for something physical, I'm not the one. Something else about this site puzzles me. Why on earth fo I have to be on other members favorite leads to be able to messge or contact someone. So what is a 100 people like me? How does that have anything to do with a possible connection between us and it is by no means a way of validation that such a person is genuine. Honestly don't get it.
I seek someone who is born again truly in his heart - that is the most important thing. I would prefer someone different from my culture and racial identity and will be happy to share why if we get to know each other. Other preferences are mentioned in the profile fields.
It would be great to get to know a non-smoker please and a proper English speaker so we can communicate effectively.
Everyone has baggage and it is realistic to expect that we are still working through some of it, we can support each other and grow stronger together.
I also want a partner that will be open to getting to know one another even if there is distance between us initially and committed to honest and consistent communication. I once read that it is a beautiful thing when people fall in love across distance, because it shows two people who are willing to wait. Sure that's not the only indicator, and distance can take its toll on a relationship especially when there communication is disrupted, but I think there is some level of truth there. I believe there is nothing two people in agreement cannot achieve with God's enablement. Etc 3: 12 - "A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."
In order for both of us to be comfortable that we are who we say in our profile, I will ask for a real time video call through Skype, Zoom or Google Meet - Not WhatsApp. That way we can both ascertain who is at the other end.
Do not be offended if I do not answer you if you contact me, it is simply because I have read your profile and feel we will not be compatible based on my preferences or simply there isn't enough information about you on your profile that would enable me want to contact you.
A last note please: If you do not agree with my ideologies or anything I have said - you have a right to your own opinion, but please keep it to yourself as I do the same. Everyone has a right to express what they want and should not message a person just to discredit what they have said.
I am truly looking forward to extensive, meaningful, intelligent and spiritually uplifting conversation if all/any of the above resonates with you.
Thanks again, that was long right? :)
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