- Eye Color
- Body Type
- Big & Tall/BBW
- Hair Color
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Do you drink?
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Do you have children?
- Do you want children?
- Education Level
- 4 Yr College Degree
- My Profession
- SOFTWARE DEVELOPMENT, BIBLE TEACHING, REACHING OUT TO THE POOR FAMILIES LIVING IN THE SLUMS
- About Me
I am an African with Canadian, South African and Zimbabwean citizenship and currently living in Kenya.
My greatest wealth is JESUS CHRIST.
No man is born to be poor. The wealth for each man is hidden in his passion and talent. You should appreciate what you have, before it becomes what you had.
I believe that Jehovah God made us equal and special in different ways. A relationship requires openness. Each person wants to be valued against all odds, appreciated, engaged in decision making process & loved as they are.
A good man/woman aiming at marriage should have a heart & mind of true partnership. Wives are neither slaves nor rungs. We must aim at making our partners to be the best of all by strengthening them in their areas of weakness. A wife is a very special person who should be treated with a lot of kindness & care.
I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN SHOULD BE ENGAGED IN DECISION MAKING, RESPECTED, APPRECIATED AND VALUED AGAINST ALL ODDS.
FIRST REASON FOR BRINGING EVE INTO THE LIFE OF ADAM WAS FOR COMPANIONSHIP BECAUSE ADAM WAS LONELY. TALKING AND LAUGHING IS A PURE THERAPY. I ALSO BELIEVE THAT IT IS MY ROLE TO HELP THE WIFE TO ALWAYS BE THE BEST OF ALL IN MY LIFE BY TREATING HER LIKE A QUEEN & MY ONLY GIRL FRIEND THROUGHOUT THE MARRIAGE.
THE BEAUTY IN A PERSON IS MADE BY THE SPOUSE.
DATING OUT OF MARRIAGE IS THE KEY TO POLYGAMY.
POLYGAMY IS THE KEY TO DESTRUCTION OF A FAMILY. IT IS GOOD TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU LOVE FOR WHO SHE IS.
GOD HAS A HAND IN EVERY SUCCESS AND IT IS YOUR SPOUSE WHO MAKES YOU THE BEST IN KITCHEN, SITTING ROOM AND BEDROOM. COMMUNICATION IS A WORKING MAGIC IN MARRIAGE. BY TELLING YOUR SPOUSE WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY IN SITTING ROOM AND BEDROOM, YOU AUTOMATICALLY MAKE THE BEST IN HIM OR HER.
PEOPLE DO LEARN A LOT IN MARRIAGE THROUGH THEIR SPOUSE. I am ready learn what I do not know, and I am also ready to teach what I know.
I believe in blessing the widows and orphans with my tithes as a way of giving my ten percent to GOD through feeding AND clothing the poor widows, orphans and building affordable houses to homeless widows in the slum areas.
MY DREAM FOR THE MARRIAGE:-
Marriage should be renewed on daily basis. We should appreciate our partner as if that is her last day on earth. ABOVE ALL, GOD IS ABLE AND HIS MERCIES ENDURE FOREVER.
We should Let go of those illicit relationships and we will not regret it. For God to show His love to us, He sacrificed His only begotten son Jesus Christ to die for our sins just to restore the relationship between man & God (John 3:1-21). As a caring and loving father or mother, what have we sacrificed to prove that we truly love our partner? Marriage is a permanent decision not a business contract.
Let us please stop being rigid to change for us to suit the partner. We, men should stop being rough and violent to the partner that they may find sweet company in us instead of violence and loneliness.
Men and women should please learn to bury all the whole day stress and challenges by the gate-side that we may walk into the house as a happy and smiling husband/wife (EPHESIANS 5:1-33).
- First Date
- SIT IN A PUBLIC HOTEL AND SHARE A CUP OF TEA AS WE GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER.
I WILL BE VERY HAPPY TO HAVE MY FIRST MEETING IN A NEUTRAL PLACE. I WILL ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF ALL OF THE EXPENSES.
GOD SACRIFICED HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON TO SHOW HIS LOVE FOR US.
AND I AM EQUALLY WILLING TO MOVE BY YOUR WIND OF LOVE TAKING CARE OF EVERY EXPENDITURE AS A WAY OF SHOWING SOME RESPONSIBILITY IN THE DATING PROCESS.
THAT DOES NOT MEAN SHOWING OFF GOD'S BLESSINGS, BUT JUST TO PROVE THAT I AM FULLY COMMITTED IN THE DATING PROCESS AND ONLY FOCUSED ON A RELATIONSHIP LEADING TO MARRIAGE.
LIFE IS VERY PRECIOUS AND UNCERTAIN. NO TIME FOR SIDE SHOTS.
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