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Manscottell View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 25 Dec, 2011 12:46 PM We men seems to think we know what women want, but we can't seem to meet their needs. Women what do you need to make any relationship succesful?. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 25 Dec, 2011 02:11 PM From my experience what women want is a for a man to just �magically� know what they need. If they have to tell you, then it�s not romantic. The man is supposed to be the leader, so therefore he should already know what the woman needs. If you don�t know what she needs, then you should date someone else until you figure it out. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 04:10 AM So they're basically not prepared to put the effort in? Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 04:36 AM So they're basically not prepared to put the effort in? But it�s the guy�s responsibility to know what she wants. They aren�t supposed to have to put any effort into it. That is what real leadership is all about. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 08:29 AM Cobbler, I think your statements are accurate. I think some women believe the men is the leader in the relationship ans should know what women need. Been there, done that, got the heartbreak to prove it. I think I have grown enough to know that I must communicate what my needs are to my partner, so that they can be met. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 10:33 AM Good question. In order for any relationship to be successful and work there must be honesty. A woman has serious need and desires for a man to be up-front and honnest with her. Otherwise, if a realtionship is based on a lie, it will never works,deceiving and being deceived should not take place between two people who are supported ly in love. When there is no trust factor, there is no real love coming forth. God tells us that the truth will be revealed no matter how long it takes, God promises to reveal the darkness, and to bring forth the light or truth of matters. When there is dishonesty and a lack of trust have destroyed many relationships and larriages and people. Honesty and trust are most important in a relationship, and this is a true expression of the love a man has toward his wife or woman in his life As in Epehesians chapter 5, if a man loves his wife or woman as he does himself and Christ so love the church, the man will be honest and trustworthy in what he speaks and does, he will have compassion, be a good listener and hearing even when he does feel like listening to her talk about STUFF (lol)... but if he is caring and affectionante and places his wife or woman above himself in all things... then the woman will have no needs or desires for anything else in her life from her husband or man, because all these other things will be added to her and the relationship will be successful because it will also find favor from God. And he too will reap the benefits of a loving successful relatonship. God ordained the man to have the leadership role in the marriage/relationship, therefore it is the man's responsibility to follow the lead of Christ toward his wife or lady friend who is in waiting or marriage. Also, if a man is lacking in the honesty or trustworhty department of such charcater toward a woman BEFORE marriage, then women should not expect him to do so AFTER marraige. it ain't happening. ...just my 3 cents worth:laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 12:35 PM cobbler I agree with you. :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 03:14 PM Et, you are absolutely correct that a relationship must have honesty, on both sides. But that is really a no-brainer. It really doesn't help us much because we all know it. I know what I wrote wasn't very helpful either, but it just shows my frustration, and I think it shows manscottel's frustration as well. There are the basic things that every woman wants, trust, respect, leadership, providing for the family. But, those things will not attract a woman. Women want more than that, and what they want varies from woman to woman. But the only way a guy is going to know what she wants is if she tells him. I know leadership is important, but if you expect the guy to do everything, then the relationship isn't going to work. Manscottell I know my answer isn't very helpful, but I also don't think you are going to get women to give you the real answer here. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 03:37 PM Women often times communicate their needs to their man and he still does not meet those needs, for whatever reasons. I think that communication is the key. If a man is not willing to communicate well, then the relationship is doomed. to fail. I would rather have a man that commuicates well with me and then he will not have to be told what my needs are. If that makes any sense to You, I am not sure, but it certainly does to me. :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 05:43 PM Angel, if women are communicating their needs to me, I am completely missing it. I think the issue is that women prefer to communicate their needs subtly instead of just coming out and asking for it. The problem is, at least when getting to know each other, is that we don�t know each other well enough to be able to understand the subtle communication. I know for me, with my asperger�s, I will miss it completely. I am very confident that is why I have not been able to start a relationship. I am not able to see the subtle queues, and that is misinterpreted as being disinterested. If you clearly communicate your needs, and he is not willing to do those things for you, then I think that is a good sign that you are not a match. But if you are doing it subtly, or just expecting the guy to know, then it�s not the man�s fault. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 26 Dec, 2011 08:26 PM Hi Cobbler I think I understand what you are saying concerning your situation with getting to know a woman. However, All women are not the same, I know you know that. lol What I was saying was about myself, and some others as well. We get to know a man first then we communicate our needs. The man is so selfish he does not want to ahear to our needs and looks what is most important to him. I am speaking from experience, and I am sure I am not the only woman that has experience this. We just have to meet the Right person for Us. I have met many men in person and None have come close to what I wanted. Well, One did but he was a deceitful man, Wolf in sheep clothes. My girlfriend met him too, she told me he was, but I found out the hard way. Unfortunately, everyone that says they are Godly, is not following the True Gospel, especially ONLINE people. Christian sites, I have been on a few Christian PAID sites is where I met these men. Post Reply

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