Author	Thread: I didn't want to ask but I have to.
syracusesinglemale View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 29 Mar, 2013 09:09 AM Ladies, I have to ask this question but I did not and it could generate controversy.. Please be nice.. thank you!! Why isn't American women not answering my replies or not making any replies to my profile. All I get were views but more views are from Africa, the Philippines, and other Pacific Rim/Asia region. Also the ladies responded to my profile are from overseas but not from the US. I am not a scammer or anything but WHY, ladies, you are not responding? That is why I said what I said in my profile that I asked American women not responding by saying come on or mouse got your hands?? I am trying to really talk with American women. Why can't you respond, ladies? I do not need your excuses but please respond! I like to have an American female for marriage and to have kids. Otherwise, it will be another foreigner going to be living here and taking your job away. Really, I am very Patroitic Conservative American who is not liking what we have in Washington and Albany. Anyway, come on. You can do better than not responding. I am trying to motivate the ladies to answer replies from men like myself. Thank you for your time. You can reply to me through my profile so we can have a nice talk and get to know each other and get married! Well, one of you will, not all of you! hahaha! JK. Of course, one I would love to marry and have children. Thank you for listening and God bless! Post Reply
View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 30 Mar, 2013 09:50 AM Hi, I feel your frustration but I do not think you really want an honest answer to your question. But here goes. Your profile comes across as a man just looking for a baby maker and it is offensive. It is almost as though you know nothing about women and all you have are demands of what you want. You appear to be very dominating and show nothing of a compromising nature. I am not who you seek but I was highly turned off by your profile. Also you should notice that no one replied to your question although many read it. Shalom, Dani. Post Reply
View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 31 Mar, 2013 05:09 AM Why is it that mature men have yet to learn what a woman wants and needs? I have a helper who is older than me and when we talk about relationship he is clueless. Men if we truly want to have a woman then we need to first go to God and seek His example of the bride/ church relationship. We need to learn the practical nature of loving A woman and serving her with gentleness. I think most men's pride prevent them from seeing their selves in the submissive role as the bride of Christ and there for fail to relate with a woman in her intended role. Men, attracting a godly woman starts with our understanding of our position before Christ. In Christ, Michael Post Reply
kuria View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 31 Mar, 2013 05:18 PM I looked at your profile and I'd like to ask a return question. I'm curious what you would do if your "bride" or whatever was, for some reason, unable to have children. This happens more and more in our world and it does seem as though this is your main desire from any woman who would be interested in you. It is scary for a woman to be confronted with this so boldly. A girl can't just say "I want to have kids" and poof...let the baby making begin. There's much more to life and relationships than that. Your profile sounds a bit like a future-relationship failure before a beginning can be made. It all depends on the one thing. Scary scary scary. Big, bold, red flag. Sorry. I'm trying to be honest and I hope this didn't sound too demeaning or rude. I don't read it that way when I've looked back over it. I hope you can feel the concern and honesty I'm trying to convey. Thank you for your willingness to ask honest questions though. That was courageous. :) Post Reply
syracusesinglemale View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 1 Apr, 2013 11:36 PM OH! This IS NOT what I wanted to hear and I get turned off RIGHT AWAY in EACH AND EVERY of those posts! I refuse to read the rest and they still not get it! Those are NOT the answers I am seeking for. I did NOT want to hear "offensive!" or anything. I have my own beliefs that I know I will have a wife to have children, mind you! Second of all, I know I will have an American and if those rejected, then America will go down the tubes like it is now because rejection against God. Same attiude I did not want to hear. I wanted to hear something like this, "Hmm, I know someone who is just like you and would like to introduce you to." or something like that. All of you who wrote are ashameful to your brother in Christ! Other wise, I am I will have to block every ladies as I have who are my age and older, foreigners, and I will focus on the one who is a true Christian in her 20s or 30s wanting to start a family. Then when I pass on, she will have a whole bunch of money AND the child(ren) can inherit as well!! Yup! I will be waiting for NICE messages of understanding and supporting! Thank you! Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 2 Apr, 2013 06:55 PM are you seriously 48? Post Reply
syracusesinglemale View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 2 Apr, 2013 09:10 PM Yes I am 48. Really seriously 48. Post Reply
View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 3 Apr, 2013 04:23 AM Brother, I know this is not what you wanted to hear but because we care about you this is what you need to hear. We are not out to hurt you but build you up and help you find the satisafaction in relationship you desire. Honesty is key to a sucessful relationship and we men need to be able to hear any verbal criticisim from our ladies without reacting to them. They need our strength and stability. God is a affirming and loving God and we men need to model His strength. Our ladies need to have the freedom to be women and express their every crazy thoughts and feelings. If we are like them then we have constant battles with them. I know this first hand. I was the source of failure of my marriage due to my lack of emotional strength. I was critical and condemning. Whenever she tried to talk with me my defenses turned the table on her. I do not want to see this happen to you and I know you do not either. The path you are walking could lead to such a thing if you do not repent and allow God to heal your heart first. I grew up in a critical and combative home and that was the example I learned. It took the renewing of my mind and seeking Gods example to learn the righteous way to treat a woman. I know your heart and motives are genuine in wanting to love a woman but brother please take the time to go before God and ask Him to show you what needs to change and grow first before He gives you the desire of your heart. Because that is our witness here for you...... In Christs love, Michael Post Reply
syracusesinglemale View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 3 Apr, 2013 07:05 AM Comments are closed. I will not read anymore. Thank you! Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 3 Apr, 2013 07:23 AM This post doesn't make you look very attractive to women. Please take the loving advice given to you by your brothers. We all want the best for you. Blessings. Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	I didn't want to ask but I have to. Posted : 3 Apr, 2013 07:24 AM This post doesn't make you look very attractive to women. Please take the loving advice given to you by your brothers. We all want the best for you. Blessings. Post Reply

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