Author	Thread: Is it just me or ... ???
Admin	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 11 May, 2013 09:52 PM I'm not the best looking guy in every room I enter but I have NEVER had trouble with women. I have never had so much trouble in my life. I want to be positive and not take it personal but I just don't get it. I'm also registered on another site for which you must pay. I registered about 4 weeks ago. I said hi to about 50 different new women and every single one read my email, looked at my profile and ignored me. It says exactly the same stuff as I do on here so ... I'm wondering if some ladies can check me out and tell me if I'm doing something wrong. I've never thought of myself as ugly but this is, honestly, a blow to the old ego. I'm not mad or anything I'm just really confused. Is my height? Looks? What I put in my introduction? I'm at a loss. Anyway, hope someone can help. I'f I'm doing something wrong let me know. I won't get mad or anything. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 12 May, 2013 05:06 AM Its about confidence.....If you find a woman you really like then persue her. If you just send her a message and then give up you are not showing to great of a value in knowing her. Invite a woman. Women wanted to be invited. Invite a woman for conversation and don not react if she doesnt respond right away. A man reacting like a school boy is the worst turn off to a woman. Women love to laugh, dont be afraid to be silly. Women love sincere honest compliments. But dont give a compliment about a womans looks right off the bat. They need to be reassured about their looks but they dont want to be appreciated only for their looks. They want a guy who wants to know the real woman. Be empathetic if possible. But mostly be communitive with her. Comminication will win her and communication will keep her. Find a woman who will respond to you. Not react to you. That really is the bottom line. A woman who will respond and follow your leadership. All others will just frustrate you so they are not worth the effort. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 12 May, 2013 10:27 AM That's all great advice. I have a reasonable amount of confidence and I never send ladies angry or hurt messages when they don't respond. I'm not sure what you mean by "invite" them. I mean, I do invite them to get to know me with the original email. I make the email personal to them according to their profile. I address things they say about themselves and indicate how we have things in common. I usually tell them they have a great smile but don't necessarily compliment the looks right off the bat. I don't want to come across creepy. I *do* appreciate all the info though. Thanks. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 12 May, 2013 02:56 PM Maybe what you have yet to learn is all women are crazy........LOL Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 12 May, 2013 05:05 PM Lol ... well ... let's just say I have not been entirely ignorant of that fact. HA HA!!!Seriously though, I've just been wondering why this has been so difficult. I'm trying to stay positive and just believe that God is saving the right one for me but to be honest it's been really troubling with all the rejection. I've never had problems dealing with rejection, it's part of life and being a man but I've also never been rejected 52 times consecutively. Anyway, I probably wouldn't have posted this on here if I was using this site exclusively because I'm sure plenty of people would take it as my being insecure or a loser or whatever but I'm actually pretty awesome. :o) With any luck eventually someone will open their eyes and realize it. God bless Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 14 May, 2013 05:30 PM since no one is going to be blunt here i will you have kids and that's a deal breaker for many. And yes your height might be the biggest deterrent. Most females want a guy who is taller. Not saying this to make you feel any less about yourself but just giving an honest answer that most persons wont. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 14 May, 2013 07:12 PM Doesn't make me feel bad at all. I don't want to believe it's the height cuz that's pretty shallow. Everything being what it is ... Your name is curiousgeorge ... Are you a woman??? This is really just for the ladies. What guys think is technically irrelevant as I am not trying to attract them. Lol. Just saying. :) Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 15 May, 2013 07:03 PM yes i'm a guy and what guys think is irrelevant. but what i just said is what many ladies think. shallow? dam right they are. And if you haven't yet noticed, the ladies here hardly answer these questions on the forums. Just like your pms. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 15 May, 2013 11:40 PM Lol yes I think I'm realizing that. (ladies not answering these) It's pretty discouraging and pathetic the way things really are compared to what they're supposed to be. Christian women will swear up and down all they want is a good man that loves God ... lies lies and more lies. They want perfection. I can't tell you how many times I've heard "Yeah he's cute ... if only he were taller." Just wow on that. So what she's saying is she's attracted to me. I have a good job. I'm a great father and man ... but my height is the problem. HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!! Pathetic. At least when a man is shallow it's about something that actually means something. I recently said to someone on here ... Is it not more shallow for a woman to want a man for money than it is for a man to want a woman for her great looks??? The answer is always yes. Oh well ... most people don't see things the way I do anymore. There are no morals left in this country. No values. Women want a man who has everything and a lot of men (myself excluded) demand a woman that looks like a Victoria's Secret model and everyone wonders why they can't find love. I'd rather remain single and happy than miserable with an incredibly beautiful woman. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 17 May, 2013 08:50 AM Okie dokie, since there is no lady that has answered you yet, Im going to k. ^^ Your info seems good, girls like guys who are instrumental. And most love a guy who is romantic. You do need to change something how ever, its the whole you not messaging a girl taller than you thing. Some girls are very sensitive about being really tall and they might like you, but because their taller it gives the feeling that youll push them away. So you have a daughter. I bet theres a lady out there who would love her too. God has a way of weaving things together, and it�s a way that only He can do. For all you know you�ll find your soul mate here, who is looking for a guy who would love her children too, and maybe she�ll be taller than you. ^-^ God has a funny way about making thing happen like that, you just don�t know what God has in store for you. Don�t forget He loves you and just trust Him. ^^ Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 17 May, 2013 03:06 PM Thanks for the advice. :) I think I'll do that. Post Reply

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