Author	Thread: how do i know if she wants to be more than friends?
Admin	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 08:03 PM i have a friend whom i like, and i have liked her for about a year and a half, after barely getting to know her she found out i liked her as more than friends, and she put up a wall, so i backed off, though i have liked her since... now she is interacting with me more, inviting me to dance, we text on our lunch breaks, talk on face book, she has been busy with school so she can't go to the bible studies we both go to, i told her she was missed at the bible studies, and now she tries to go as often as she can without sacrificing her studies, lately though i notice her looking at me more, and the other day she came up and poked me, which i have never seen her do, though it is something i do to her on occasion(yeah maybe childish...) so i am wondering from you ladies if you think she is interested now, or if she is just being more friendly because she is comfortable around me? i am trying not to read into it, and even if she does like me i am not going to act on it for a while, i want to get to know her more better, then i will talk to her dad, but that has to do with my views on relationships... thanks for your time, and thankyou in advance for the advice! B.I.C. ~Anthony Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 08:43 PM Based on what you said, I think it is a combination of being more comfortable (she's getting to know you better, too) and also I think she is showing you she likes you. Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 08:46 PM i guess i should just wait and see what happens... Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 1 Nov, 2010 08:48 AM Ask her. :goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 07:45 AM Agree with Siylii. No other way. And ask her bluntly about what she feels about u, dun use parables lol go straight forward with her =) Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 05:41 PM but if i ask her it goes against my personal convictions, if i ask her that could indicate to her that i am interested, and i don't want that until after i have talked with her dad and gotten permission to pursue a relationship... Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 06:18 PM If those are your convictions, I guess you should run with them, but good luck finding a girl out of high school who is going to be ok with that. Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 07:13 PM It feels harsh to say this, but when you mentioned the poking thing and called it "childish", I couldn't help but think, "Not telling her is what is 'childish'." But you have your convictions, and I don't know your reasons so I don't want to judge you or jump to conclusions. What I do have to say is that wanting to ask her father's permission seems out of place unless she is a minor. Does her father own her or have complete control over her? She is her own person, and you are your own person, I do not see why you should ask her father's permission unless she is a child. But again, I do not know your reasoning behind your conviction so I do not want to judge, so sorry if what I said seemed rude. Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 10:37 PM i feel the bible says that as men we are to guard a woman's heart, and if i tell her and she does like me but her father does not approve there could be heart break, we are called to obey and honor our parents until we "leave and cleave" some may view this as old school, but i think the bile sets the president... most of the young ladies in my christian circle feel that a father is to play an important role in relationships, since a father is to be a protector of his wife and children, if he is protecting his daughter he wont let just any man take her to be his wife, he should want to know the man and make sure that he is walking righteously before the lord, as long as she is under her parents roof I would not feel comfortable without asking his permission. not all Christians agree with me, but this is what God has laid on my Heart! Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 11:10 PM As a girl who has not had a relationship with her father for over seven years, it is hard for me to want to support your ideal, because it is that, an ideal, not always a reality. Besides, you cannot control all the variables that could cause her heartbreak. Her heart becomes yours to protect once you "leave and cleave". I really feel like you are not giving her enough credit. Who is protecting your heart if her father told you he did not want you to pursue her when you hoped to? The same One that protects your heart can protect hers. Post Reply
View Profile History	how do i know if she wants to be more than friends? Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 02:02 PM "Ask &you shall recieve. Seek & ye shall find.Knock& the door shall be opened".In other words,just ask her bro:applause:!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Post Reply

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