Author	Thread: A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings.
Admin	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 20 Aug, 2012 03:52 AM Brothers and Sisters, We get all confused as to what submission is in the bible, right? I was just posting on a thread and I had to hit the submit button. Anyone here have to hit the submit button as well? What are we doing when we hit the submit button? We are offering freely our thoughts and feeling on a certain topic, right? It makes sense now and this has been my sucess in my relationship my with feincee. She offers her advice , opinion, feelings etc to me and because I love her I consider and listen to her submitted thoughts. Could submission be as simple as this? YES But also from a mans point validating her submitted thoughts and from her point submitting thoughts that will easily be recieved. Many times we out of our great need to be heard try to force our thoughts on another. This is not submission. Like here their are guidelines we are called to follow in comunicating. For me in my relationship I want to hear her thoughts because i love her. My problem is that she many times holds back on her thoughts because she is fearful of hurting me. She tries to protect me from her feelings. I had this problem with my previous relationship. This time I am a strong man and once she shares with me I (do not) react out of pride or feeling of rejection to her and can show her compassion and love instead. Whenever she withholds sharing with me, she limits my being able to express love to her in what she is feeling. Also God has called a mans wife to be his helper and if she holds back in submitting her thoughts how can she be his help?Being a Husbands helper is not going and doing it by your self. That breakes down unity and seperates you from oneanother. But women have to remember your words need to come to us with ((((((respect)))))))). Many times your words come in derission or in a form of a command. When you come to a man without respect you will never be heard but you will only push away the man you seek to help. Your attitude toward him is everything. This I believe is the leading cause of abuse in relationships a woman who does not know how to approace a wounded man. Women who put their men on the defense and ultimatly at war with you. Its the difference between telling ( trying to be powerful over him) or in submission( gently submitting your advice and thoughts) A angry abusive man is a man who has been belittled all of his life and his wife belittles him as well. A abusive man is so insecure and despretly needs help from a good woman, his wife. His abuse is his way to feel powerful because deep down in side he feels powerless. But he is to afraid to look at his powerlessness. If you ladies understood the motive behind abuse maybe you could be a better helper to him. Its not to late to be his helper, The helper God has called you to be... You can go to your man and ask forgiveness for your continues rejection of him and ask forgiveness for your dissrespect to him. Men you need to go to your wife and ask forgiveness for being abusive due to your insecurities and weakness. If a Husband or wife starts here, their is hope for you. If you need further help just ask me and i would love to do so. In service of Christs body, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 31 Aug, 2012 03:41 AM GUD, Cant you see I said about the views just to get you excited and I was sucessful. You are so easy to predict fellow. So now you are by your own admission a man who keeps not his word, your promise. Ive got you so emotionally captivated to this thread and you cant even see that. Your a tall man but you lack strength. I hope you find it one day before finding a wife. I hope you find self controll. I know men like you because I used to be one it does not go well for a lady. In your service GUD, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 31 Aug, 2012 03:55 AM Just to let you know GUD, as long as you keep coming back I will continute to toy with you. Its such fun......You must enjoy it as well. Since you keep coming back again and again, right? Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 31 Aug, 2012 07:52 AM I could dive down to your level but I will not. All I will say is that you have shown your heart to everyone here and as I have pointed out, your plan is to toy with people. In reality we know that you weren't toying about view count...but your argument was demolished and you had to come up with something to save face. Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 31 Aug, 2012 08:09 AM " Just to let you know GUD, as long as you keep coming back I will continute to toy with you." So it's the last word you want? Go for it, but this time try to make it something that honors God. "Its such fun" "So hoesty it is my attempt to dismiss him." Classic case of saying whatever at the time to make a point. Of course, it proves a lie in the end. My goal had been to point out errors long enough until you had no choice but to admit you were toying with minds here. Finally, by God's grace everyone knows the truth now and knows not to take you serious on these threads anymore...because of your own admission. It was a long time coming, but it was God's timing and not ours. I hope in the future you will respect people more and not toy with them. It has not place on a "Christian" forum. Last word is all yours man. GO ahead and toy with us some more. Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 9 Sep, 2012 07:25 PM GUD, I just want to say I am sorry for my comment to you. It was out of line and I am sorry. Post Reply

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