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Confused
Posted : 22 Aug, 2011 03:51 PM

Ok so I met this girl on another dating site who is a christian. She showed interest in me and we started chatting back and forth on that site. She then tells me to look her up on FB. I find her on there and we chat back and forth a little more. I am interested in this girl and she seems to be in me so I go ahead and msg her saying that I find her to be a very fun and interesting person and that I would like to get her number so we can acually talk to each other and possibly meet up. I send her the msg and I dont get any response back. Ok I figure she isn't ready yet to talk. Acouple days go by and I see that she is online, so I try and chat with her again. She doesn't respond. Now I'm confused, she seemed to show interest and now she acts as if I dont exist. Does it seem like I did anything wrong? I would really like to get to know her better but I dont want to seem pushy and forceful.

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2011 10:48 PM

Sounds like the girl has her own issues. I would suggest that you try not take it too personally. Sometimes people flake. People are messy, so messes are bound to happen sometimes.



Don't worry about talking to girls (online or offline). The best thing you can do is take a deep breath and not worry. It helped me a lot when I stopped thinking of guys as "other" and "judge" and started thinking of the furrier sex as "people like me."



Each person is different, you learn as you go.



At least you have a good profile.



Good luck you.

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