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How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls?
Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 08:15 AM

Hi, there.



I'm sending messages to a girl but she's not responding. she reads my messages, but doesn't answer. And I keep thinking what I should do to get a reply. Am I doing things wrongly? I don't know.



For those who are thinking to say she's not interested, let me tell you I've already thought that. The fact is that she does not answer anything, she didn't say she's not interested in me, and she didn't say she is, also.



Help me understand it, please. Give me advices on how I could attract her attention....



Thank you so much.

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How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls?
Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 05:54 PM

I'm suprised too that she hasn't blocked me. Perhaps she's already done so. I've just arrived from church and i've realized that i must stop talking to her. I was getting discouraged and obsessive, getting a response was becoming for me a matter of dignity. If I was she, I'd block me too. I actually am the sensitive and romantic guy, so when I like someone i dive into that feeling, i've heard that respitite and romantic guys suffer more but didn't know it's true until now. Do you think i should send her a message apologizing for what i've done, and then stop once for all? I thank everyone of you for your advices and hope to keep contact with you.

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Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 06:03 PM

NO. Don't say your sorry, show your sorry by not writing. Any apology you try to write in this situation defeats the purpose.

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Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 08:43 PM

yes true, stop once for all

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Posted : 3 Oct, 2011 05:59 PM

It happens to the best, and worst of us buddy. Sometimes we think we would be a great fit (maybe anyways) for someone, but they think differently. We do it as well.



I have ready many amazing profiles on this site and I've definitely found some gals that I believe would be a great fit with me. Have I messaged any? Of course. Have they all answered back? Absolutely not. Oh well, it happens. Does it bother us? Sometimes, yeah. But its just not in God's plan. We question His will too often; in the future we tell ourselves "duh, should've just been faithful", while we currently kick ourselves in the butt.



Keep your chin up buddy.... God will give you someone that clicks perfectly with you. I haven't dated a girl in over 2 years because I'm waiting for mine... I suppose I'll wait 2, maybe 12, even 20 years if God wants me to wait. Patience is a virtue! (Even thought I feel as if impatience is as well ::ROFL:)

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Posted : 4 Oct, 2011 10:22 PM

And for you're own sake learn from this so you don't make the same mistakes. Don't get ahead of yourself and read too much into your initial impressions. The best chance you can give yourself is to do that and then just write one message and play it cool and move on. After that it's out of your hands and if God wants it to work out it will and if He doesn't then it won't. Either way it's for your benefit so just try to remember that and be patient.

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Posted : 9 Oct, 2011 07:47 PM

The weird thing is that it would only take her two seconds to click the "sorry, not interested" button. Yet she apparently can't even do that.

I agree with the others that the best option is to forget about her and move on to someone else. In fact I think you should block her. She had her chance and didn't take advantage of it. I personally always block a woman if she doesn't respond within 72 hours.

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2011 05:14 PM

That's not good to be in this situation. but.. I'm truly liking her, and if my heart has decided to chose her, I'll keep trying. May God help me.

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