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What do christian girls look for in Guys?
Posted : 14 May, 2012 02:51 AM

Its difficult to actually get a chrsitain girl who loves God so much. Firstly, they are so few, and then, they are conservative types.

So how donyou actually get a christain girl to like you and love you?

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What do christian girls look for in Guys?
Posted : 22 May, 2012 11:40 AM

Also, the link you posted does not appear to be the same book that I was talking about. It's by different authors.

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Posted : 23 May, 2012 07:02 AM

To the question: how do you get a Christian girl to love you?



I don't believe it is a matter of working for it. It is about praying for it. If you find a girl who you think is "the one," you have to start praying.



I know how hard it is for guys because you usually makes the moves on us and we usually are the ones to wait so maybe the easiest advice is: ask Him.



If the Lord gives you the go signal, just go. And if you get rejected, don't give up easily. The Lord may still cause the girl to like you. I know someone with a similar case where the guy prayed for the girl, got rejected by the girl at first but they eventually got married.

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Posted : 30 May, 2012 06:12 AM

First thing we need to learn as men is how to treat a woman as a person and not a object. Every woman wants to be appreciated for who she is.



A woman wants trust. How does she know if she can trust you? By being open and sharing with her. A woman wants a sensitive but strong man. Many men react our of hurt or they are to eager.



A woman wants to be persued but not chased. She needs space and does not want to be smothered. If you hit her with a machine gun of questions she will get spooked.



A woman wants you to read her full profile and be able to express the things you appreciate about her.



A woman wants a guy to never point our any flaws or be criticle of her in any way even jokingly.



A woman really , really , really needs to be listened to. I am not talking about words alone but what is between the words. It is alright to as her to express what she means this tells her your listening intently.



A woman wants a man who will make her laugh.



A woman wants a man who will look her in the eye and not at her $#%^. The word I wanted to put was sensored.



A woman wants a guy to be available.



I hope these help a bit.

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Posted : 30 May, 2012 08:44 PM

I'm not sure if I only speak for myself, but I'm wanting a guy who is mature and not in it just for the one night stand. That has been my biggest problem with any guy I've dated in the past 8 years. My world seems to be filled with guys who are 30+ and either still living with mommy or playing video games all day. When we go out, I can tell that all they want is to get "down my pants."



As far as I know, I don't put out any signals for that behavior, nor do I think I'm that gorgeous to make a guy want to jump me right then.



So what do I want as a christian girl? A guy who says he's a Christian and means it. Someone mature, respectful, and honest with himself and those around him.



I hope this helps. Best wishes!

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