Author	Thread: rethinking
Admin	rethinking Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 08:36 PM Many women will say that when they get a message that it should say why he chose to write her. Until today I just accepted it without thinking, but am now asking "Why?". Why is it important to know and does it really make a difference when deciding whether or not to go out and get to know each other better over coffee? Is it much better than just saying "I like your profile. Would you like to go out and chat sometime?" Post Reply
View Profile History	rethinking Posted : 13 Oct, 2012 03:03 AM It's not a matter of you not being good enough, you've tried to manipulate me repeatedly and have attempted to manipulate other people into believing that we had some sort of romantic relationship. You tried to publicly humiliate me, and you turn around and make me out to be unreasonable. Post Reply
View Profile History	rethinking Posted : 13 Oct, 2012 01:11 PM I like to chat with someone online or over the phone before running out to meet them in person. Post Reply
View Profile History	rethinking Posted : 13 Oct, 2012 09:05 PM Titus 1:15 A person who is pure of heart sees goodness and purity in everything; but a person whose own heart is evil and untrusting finds evil in everything, for his dirty mind and rebellious heart color all he sees and hears. (The Living Bible) Father knew I wanted to say something, but I thank Him for stopping me. He knew exactly what needed to be done. Wisdom of serpents...gentleness of doves. :) I forgive you. Yes, it also stepped on my toes. I'm sorry! Post Reply
View Profile History	rethinking Posted : 13 Oct, 2012 10:53 PM @hope: yeah I get that. I'd rather skip ahead to the date though and find out then since it cuts to the quick meaning there's more clarity and you can cover so much more ground in a short time than with emails. That and this is a dating site after all, but that's just me. So if you were to get that example message I gave in the beginning would you reply anyway or not at all? There's no wrong answer or nothing I just want to know if its actually effective. Post Reply
View Profile History	rethinking Posted : 14 Oct, 2012 04:17 AM Men need to understand the needs of a woman. The bible tells husbands to cherish their wives. Why? because ladies need to feel cherished. Not only cherished but protected. When a man identifies a internal beauty about a woman she knows he is looking deeper than her outer woman. A man who looks only to her flesh is not a individual who will protect a woman from him self. The thing that makes a woman feel unprotected is when a man points out her flaws. A woman is sensitive enough about her many flaws without a man pointing them out in her. I used to be a minipulating man out of my insecurities. I am sad to say that i have hurt some women along the way due to them. It wasnt until God had revealed them to me and I repented that change began in my life. You see I used to use my power to perswade for evil and selfish gain. This is one of my parts in failed relationships. But I was blind to it until God opened my eyes. When He did I began using my power to direct the hearts of ladies toward God and God alone. This is what caused women to fall in love with me and feel cherished and safe. They could see that my motives were for their interest and not my own. A woman can see when a man genuinly has her best interest for her or not. Finding a woman to love is a daunting task but when you find her it is heaven. Men I know all of you want to truly love a woman but please take invintory before God and allow Him to reveal to you if you are yet equipped to do so. Wanting to love and being eqquiped to love are entirely two seperate things. Be Gods man, be a loving man from the heart by seeking to know God more and more. In Christs service of His body, M Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	rethinking Posted : 18 Oct, 2012 08:16 AM I don't know about other guys, but if I were to answer that question honestly, it would read something along the lines of, "Well, your profile is awful and gives me no useful information. However, there are a number of intangibles I picked up on in your photos that I like, so I'd like to get to know you better." Something tells me that there aren't very many women who would be happy with that answer, regardless of how accurate my observations and inferences were. Post Reply
View Profile History	rethinking Posted : 30 Oct, 2012 09:27 PM Dude that's weird. I don't think the lady is interested if she says that. I wouldn't. What I don't like though is "how are you?" I ignore those. No thought was put into that. Post Reply

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