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How come no one looks?
Posted : 21 Oct, 2009 08:56 PM

Ok,so I need some help . I've bin on this site for about 3 years. Since then I have not had one person try contact me, and of all the women I tried to talk to only one had the decency to message me back.So whats the problem? Do I need to whip the shirt off and strike a pose or something:winksmile:? I know I got kind of emo in some of my previous posts, but I was just ticked off and angry at the world when I wrote those.I hope I did not scare any one off.I'm a happy person most the time!

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Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 10:48 PM

jillwill: i caught a chicken in fair race.

cute idea.

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2009 04:13 PM

I could be wrong and I apologize in advance if I am...I am no counsellor, but you seem to be an angry, sarcastic, bitter, impatient, and did I mention a very angry person... the way one writes is an extension of one's character, you need to work on what is bothering you, and I bet it is much more than your feelings about this web site...if you post a smiley face picture and still write the way you do, that's probably not gonna do you any good. Pray to God for some healing, and 'im gonna say a prayer for you too...good luck, be well and God bless.

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2009 10:16 PM

Hi Jared, I will give you my opinion since you asked. I think you are a nice looking guy, I think I would include more than one photo and photos where you are looking straight at the camera, perhaps one outside, a full body shot too.



I think it's great you're wanting to get into the military but Jared, you have what, only one or two sentences? As a woman (I have sons older than you so I am not coming on to you by any means), you have to open up a little more and tell more about yourself, your priorities and what you are looking for in return.



I hear that from men on some of the forums that they want to know what women are looking for when they are reading her page. You don't have to be witty or have dog photos. Be yourself. From what I gather you are a serious individual, that is what you project. No problem in that. But, you have one photo and one or two sentences and that is not enough to hook a girl into being interested in your profile.



Also, I don't know this but I wouldn't suspect there would be very many girls in the age bracket you prefer, on this site. I think most people your age meet each other at events, jobs, school, parties, church, etc. I think this site is mostly for older people like me who find themselves in middle age, having been abandoned by their spouse and looking to start over.



God bless you little brother Jared. I hope my view on this helps! Take care!

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2009 10:00 AM

Well, this is my worth-a-penny thought on your concern. Since you are looking for women 18-21 years old here, and haven't had any luck on that, the only probable explanation I can give you is simply this: most of them are out there and having fun and haven't had any thought yet that they may need this site. lol

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Posted : 26 Nov, 2009 10:15 AM

Hi! I was intrigued by your profile.....you did a fine job...I just cant write to you because I am 61 and you put a limit of 60 on your age thingy!! You may be missing the love of your life!! Nanette

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