Author	Thread: Playing hard to get
Admin	Playing hard to get Posted : 17 Nov, 2009 10:05 PM I wonder if the women ever regret this like the Shulamite woman (Song of Songs 5). The guy is seeking her but she takes too long or pretends not to be interested or she begins making excuses and playing hard to get. The Shulamite did not respond to her lover and he went away. True, Song of Solomon 5 is an erotic love poem, graphically illustrating two lovers. It describes how her love came to the door, but she took her time answering and when she did he had already left. :eat: Song of Songs 5:6,8 "my beloved had turned away and was gone. My heart leaped up when he spoke. I sought him, but I could not find him; I called him, but he gave me no answer. ... I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, If you find my beloved, That you tell him I am lovesick!" :hearts: It also has a spiritual meaning. Marriage is likened to Christ and the Church. And if Jesus came for you would you say you are too comfortable right now, vs.3. You might be thinking yeah most the guys on here are nowhere close to being Christ like. But even in a marriage when the guy reaches out to you do you pretend to be hard to get or you just want him to work extra hard for you? Like Jacob who worked for seven extra years to buy a wife. :bouncy: Post Reply
View Profile History	Playing hard to get Posted : 20 Nov, 2009 02:39 PM dear folks, since im an ole country boy i tend to watch animals closely.. and if youve ever seen an ole fox hound while he trails on an ole fox, he will work that track and work that track and he will stay on that track clinging to it , but ill tell you one things for sure you let him run across another ole fox track thats a little hotter to him and smells stronger to him and he will leave that old cold trail to follow the fresher track.. the one he knows hes got a better chance of catchin.. the moral of the sotry is dont make anyone work so hard that they feel the trials grown cold on em.. cause they will surely trail off.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Playing hard to get Posted : 20 Nov, 2009 05:09 PM dear folks, oops i forgot ,,now the young hound dog wont even fool with that cold track .. he aint even interisted and he wont say a word till he hits a hot track.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Playing hard to get Posted : 20 Nov, 2009 09:00 PM Cattleman, If men really went after women like that Fox Hound in your analogy we'd have a 50% divorce rate....wait, we do have a 50% divorce rate. Never mind. Post Reply
View Profile History	Playing hard to get Posted : 20 Nov, 2009 09:42 PM dear arch, lol ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Playing hard to get Posted : 21 Nov, 2009 02:03 AM :waving: Yeah, men are like dogs and women are like cats. Dogs jump at whoever they see but you cannot pet a cat unless she lets you. :dunce: Post Reply
View Profile History	Playing hard to get Posted : 9 Dec, 2009 12:37 PM I dont undersand why people play hard to get??? I've had people tell me that I should play the game but I wouldnt know how to even If I tried. lol When I am interested In a guy then I do all that I can to show him. On the other hand, I am very passive with the guys that I dont take an interest In, because I dont want to lead anybody on. I have been told by a few men that It Is better to play hard to get, that men like to chase but not catch. lol They also went on to say that no matter how Interested I am In somebody that I should make them win my heart...play hard to get...and If they are that Interested then they will stay for the chase and If they dont want the chase then they werent worth It. but, I cant say that I agree with the advice I have been given and I dont ever intend to try It out either. The only part I agree with Is the fact that I do believe that somebody should have to win your heart but I dont believe that you should put them on a wild goose chase In the process. Post Reply

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