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This is a " dating" site right
Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 10:45 PM

Hi. I'm not sure if women on here are really serious about having a meaningful relationship as some say in their profile. I feel like sending messages are a waste of time. Maybe its me so can someone check out my profile and be as critical as you can, I can take criticism

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 12:49 PM

Yea, I'd have to agree with just about what everyone has said. Just take it slow, and be patient. I know I am pretty cautious, and I'm sure I can speak for others as well. I've talked to a few guys on here and it seems like we talk for a bit then don't hardly talk again. I've met one in real life from here and it was good and we are still just friends as its not supposed to be anymore than that. So be patient, don't elude to sexual things or meeting or talking on the phone right away.

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 06:12 PM

once after being on this site for too long, i got off and watched a nova special about glaciers. they move so fast! :goofball:

Slower is better though, if you can make that adjustment. I'm getting there but still learning.

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 07:09 PM

Brandon,



I looked at your profile and I want to be honest with you based on my experience with this site. You're an attractive guy, well spoken, clear, and educated. Honestly... without knowing you in person I realize this is slightly uninformed, but from appearances, your profile is in a whole other league compared to a lot of people on this site.



Best of luck in your search... and don't sell yourself short.

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 09:22 PM

there's as lot of good advice here brandon, pardon if i missed someone saying this already but getting involved in this forum is also a good way to let people get to know more about you by your questions or comments. have some fun and if nothing else, by being here we all get to learn, grow, have a say and have some great fellowship and meet people we may have never had a chance to ya know?

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Posted : 30 Jan, 2010 06:24 PM

Lots of great advice here. Jenni, Mark, and T know what they are talking about. Don't get discouraged. Take it slow.

And if there is no response, don't take it personally. Look at it as their loss. And trust that the Lord will lead you to the right lady for you. It just takes time.



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Posted : 30 Jan, 2010 06:29 PM

dear wife, welcome to the forums..

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 02:04 AM

In my opinion just thinking of this site as a "dating" site is wrong. Yes you can meet someone and possibly go on a date but.... you should start off as friends.



Look for people to be friends with, share opinions, thoughts, give advice when you can to those who ask for it. You never know what can start out of friendship.



If you always have "DATE" on your mind you may very well pass up the best thing out there for you because you could be leaving God and His choices for you out on the limb.



The saying goes that a watched pot never boils...well apply that to this site.



Don't be looking so hard and you might find what you want.

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 11:14 AM

mimi - very well put...as all that have shared here...xo

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 09:23 PM

I found a couple of pennies, so I'd like to add:



Please do NOT send me (or other women) a bible study or sermon as a "message". Feel free to post your opinion backed up with scripture in the forums; but messages are for being personal . . .

Gentlemen, if you live MORE than 50 miles away (and believe me everybody does!) if you really don't have any way to arrange to meet face to face; all the lovely notes in the world aren't going to help either one of us find a mate.

Yippee Kiyay for all of those who encouraged Brandon to use the forums! :yay:You really do get to see and to know things about people you would spend weeks prying out of them through phone calls and writing messages back and forth.

People forget to be on their "best behavior" here. (Except for Ol' Cattle . . . he never forgets :laugh: They get right to point and generally speak right from the heart. This is where real faith is shared. I've met at least a dozen brothers and sisters in the forums that I'd love to meet before I go home and I will be looking for first when I get there.

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Posted : 16 Jun, 2010 02:33 PM

Hi. Thanks to brandon512 for starting this topic. And a big thankyou to jennigirl06 for some really sensible advice for us guys!

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