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Approaching certain topics
Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 08:10 PM

Hello, I am curious if there is a way to understand how forward a guy should be with a girl, particularly on this website. I know I don't want to sound like I wanna get married the next day....which I am positive that I don't come off that way at all. However, how do you make your interest in someone really known without coming off as a creeper? I find this difficult many times in conversing with women. I will state for the sake of the discussion that I am trying this website out to find a potential future mate. I'm pretty sure that everyone on her is doing the same thing. I honestly feel that if you are really looking for just friends on here, then you might not be doing a good job in your church or at least connecting to other churches in your area. Anyways, sorry about the tangent. So can any ladies help me with this. Its just difficult for me to understand. Maybe when I like someone I get to scared of looking desperate or coming on too strong and then it makes me look like I really have no interest. I don't think I do this to an extreme but whatever, if this makes sense then let me know. Thanks people!



~Tyler

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Posted : 20 Apr, 2010 04:12 PM

Personally, I think you need to feel out the situation a little. I mean yeah, we all wanna find that someone, but be sure you and who you think IS that someone both are on the same page.

Don't read a profile and be all "Oh, I love you" Get to know them first through IM or msging. After that, when you're actually talking or skyping off the site...at this point have "the talk" and let her know you're seriously diggin' her. Guard your heart though. Really pray through things before you let yourself fall. But if you know she's the one, let her know that's what you feel...be don't be saying that to 5 girls at the same time...

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2014 09:22 AM

What specific topic would you approched in a first time talking to a girl?

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