Author Thread: Why would you want him as a friend???
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Why would you want him as a friend???
Posted : 9 Dec, 2010 09:13 AM

Hello again ladies...once again another question. You know a guy likes you...when he aserts himself you back away but then after a short period of time you find yourself opening back uo to him and in some circumstances you approach him...you come across as though you just want to be friends but why or what is causing you to only want him as a friend and to not loose him as a friend. In other words, are there underlying feelings that exist if you WANT him as a friend. When I say this I mean its not a matter of "we should just be friends", I'm saying you truly want him as a friend...why? And if you truly WANT him as a friend, why wouldn't you want more?

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Why would you want him as a friend???
Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 11:59 PM

Well, it depends on the situation. I have been in a perdicument like this. The guy was really interested, I was too, but there were some doubts cause I didn't really know him, so I suggested we be friends. He got all mad and said "it is all or nothing". So needless to say he got nothing.

I tend to fall for guys I am friends with, because we can be ourselves around eachother without the feeling of I better watch my p's and q's or else he isn't gonna like me. So I end up seeing the guy for who they really are and not some mirage of what they want me to see. But if I come right off the bat wanting to be friends, without any sign of me liking you, it pretty much means you are stuck in the friend zone.

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