Author	Thread: Quarrelsome Women
Admin	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 19 Mar, 2011 01:04 PM Currently there is a woman on the forums that brings back memories of my last girl friend. My last girl friend was a sweet gal, somewhat younger. We got along very well at first as I made her the most important thing in my life after God. However as time went on I began to realize she didn't do the same for me. It began to irritate me until I finally quit her. She came back apologetic and wanting to try again, I agreed. Her new behavior lasted about 24 hours. I stuck it out and began to notice that no matter what I said, she would disagree. So I looked for stuff she would agree with, could find nothing. I even tried compliments like you look nice today, to which she would reply "Oh, my hair didn't come out right today". I became so aware of it I could not even have a enjoyable conversation with her. Even to go to the movies, it became a chore to pick one to see. 9 times out of ten I really didn't care, just as long as we were doing something together, but the one time I knew what I wanted to see she would diagree, so I said "forget it then, I would rather not go". Her and her friend took horseback riding lessons from me. Her friend was fun to give lessons to, but as I tried my hardest to give her a lesson in such a way where she wouldn't argue, I never suceeded. I even noticed that when we went somewhere and happened to have 2 vehicles if she left first I would follow her, but if I left first she would never follow but pick a different route and try to beat me there. *sigh* I could go on, but that paints a good enough picture to get the idea. So what do you think? Why are modern women like this? If they are all like this I agree with the Bible, 'it is better to live on a roof top or in the desert than with a quarrelsome woman' Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 08:10 AM twosparrows, maybe she's the alpha female type who has to wear the pants in a relationship, but at the same time likes men who have a stronger personality. Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 10:39 PM JLYM, Modern Woman = A woman who thinks she can be a man or a woman depending on her mood or the situation. Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 10:54 PM Live, you are probably correct, however it is not a recipe for a healthy relationship or a happy life, I'll pass. I have a strong personality, however I am constantly trying Not to exercise it, however she takes great pride in exercising hers, which makes me exercise mine to avoid becoming a door mat. It's the Genesis curse; the woman will have a desire to rule over her husband. I have no desire to rule over a woman, however I don't need one ruling over me. I think I'm going to the Philippines...lol! Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 11:26 PM Hahaha! Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 11:53 PM 2spa, Some people find it cool to change gender whenever they want to, and your gf was one of them! :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 22 Mar, 2011 01:49 AM Oh, but lets remember, the Bible says "Iron sharpens iron". Gotta love that verse. But generally, when arguing with a quarrelsome person I usually have to explain that I'd love to agree, but then we'd both be wrong. Seriously though, the people you love most you will be most congruent with, thus you will have more arguments with them from time to time. Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 22 Mar, 2011 05:00 AM "Iron sharpens iron", but how? By banging them together? Or by gently rubbing them together and just the right angle and for just the right time? Sharpening a piece of iron is a deliberate act undertaken with finesse and care. And a person who sharpens to much will soon find themself without a blade. Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 22 Mar, 2011 05:33 AM You're probably right. But I generally think that once you marry a man you can't change him anymore. They can encourage certain behavior by setting a right example, but woe unto me if I try to change him by force. If then, suppose I was right about not being able to will a man to change after marriage, wouldn't it be logical for me to try to change him before? Also, aggressiveness in a woman can sometimes be a defense mechanism due to past experience. You've got yourself into a pickle :dancingp: But one thing I know, love and you can't go wrong. And love for most people is spelt t-i-m-e. You probably shouldn't take me too seriously, just giving my two cents, and I don't even know the whole situation. Keep seeking the Lord concerning it. God bless you, 2sparrows. Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 22 Mar, 2011 12:21 PM two if they did not have something to fight about where would you be at in life????? Boring- no making up.:ROFL: :yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 22 Mar, 2011 01:20 PM They very root of Christianity demands change of all those that confess Jesus as lord, which is where the crux of the problem is, who is lord? Post Reply

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