Author	Thread: Remove age limits? Anyone?
VKWV1 View Profile History	Remove age limits? Anyone? Posted : 28 Apr, 2011 01:26 AM I would like to suggest everyone remove their age limits and post their limits in their profile. I know this is a dating site, but if you are a true Christian, shouldn't you want to talk to other Christians, no matter their age or gender? Rom 12:5 So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and every one members one of another. Sometimes I see something in someone's profile that makes me rejoice and I want to tell them. I want to rejoice with them. I want to call them brother or sister. I am drawn to Christ and I can see Him in many of you and want to be closer to Him through you. And it seems awfully cold to see that "You may not message this member," come up when I try. Read my post about love under biblical discussions. Thing is, I'm not sure many of us know that is happening because I didn't when I first set up my profile. I now have it set to "any age." That's all :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Remove age limits? Anyone? Posted : 29 Apr, 2011 08:39 PM Well you are painting me with a pretty broad brush there Doug, and using the worst case scenario. If you say "Drinkers", or the option (as on CDFF) is to block "Drinkers", what I think of is someone who drinks alcohol more than a couple of times a week. After all - there has to be a starting point, some point of reference. That happens to be mine. Might not be yours or the next person. I don't want to be around someone like that, for reasons that..... are none of anyone's business actually. My only option is to block them or not. I choose to block them. Same with "smokers". My starting point - my reference is: Is he trying to quit? Of course I would give him a chance. Does he smoke one a day? Well..... is he trying to quit? Thing is, I COULD date someone that smokes even just one a day. On the off chance something I do or say would witness in love to him and he would decide to quit smoking. But on the other hand I don't want to be close to him and I sure don't want to kiss him, even if he smoked in the morning and we saw each other that night. I just don't want to do it. That is my preference. It might not be yours or the next person's. The options I have on CDFF is to block or not. And I choose to block. I should show love to those people, and given the opportunity I will. Gladly. But I'm not going to date them. That is my choice and preference. Might not be yours or someone else's. Post Reply

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