Author	Thread: How come I'm ignored a lot?
aaengel View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 09:35 PM Hello, I'm not sure if other guys have had this experience, but I'd like to know why most of the women ignore me when I try to send a polite hello message to them? Are you intentionally ignoring us guys? I know I can see it when someone has read my message. Wouldn't it be better to say you're not interested... I'd rather have that. Please don't be rude anymore.
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 09:03 AM I am a new Christian trying to get this right for Jesus. yes i want a good Christian husband but I have to be attrected to hm as well if I am going to spend the rst of my life with him, there's no point marrying a white man or a nerd or someone short because I would be unhappy and God wants me to prosper and be happy in all area's. i only fancy tall black men and that's how I rooll and there will be some Chritian men who fit how I find a man attractive. I have already met and am talking to two already and I have only been a member 3 days.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 09:51 AM Ferrngirl, I did not know until I read it on another thread. I rejoice, as the angels rejoice, Welcome! Luke 15:10 "In the same way, I tell you there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents." I do not judge your taste in men any more than I would accept your judgement of my taste in women. How you roll is your business. My point is if you put your business out there for all to see, especially if it is exclusive of others, it is not fair to think some will not take a double take, get a chuckle or say something. It is not your taste in men, that gives a chuckle, is is the absolute exclusion of all others. Hope that helps you see it from another perspective.
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 09:56 AM No, I dont understand. I just thought that writing my preferences saves other men a hassle!
Tulip89 View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 10:07 AM "God wants me to prosper and be happy in all area's" I have to respectfully disagree. God is concerned with our happiness, but he is concerned that our happiness is entirely in him. Our circumstances are irrelevant as long as they bring us closer to him, the only one who can truly satisfy. Some of the greatest theologians and missionaries struggled deeply with depression and sickness, yet were intimately close with God in a way few people will ever experience. You don't really believe that a man who has lots of stuff in a Manhattan condo and barely goes to church is inherently more Godly than a missionary living in a hut watching his wife die of tropical fever, do you?
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 10:32 AM no I certainly dont and I despise materialism. What I was speaking of came from the subject of me desiring a tall man over 6 foot actually. and that I write that God wants me to prosper in all area's is what my Pastor has taught me, so respectfully back at you, i will go with Pastor on this and not you as I dont know you, but thankyou for trying to guide. Amen
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 10:41 AM Ferngirl, To put it another way: If comments bother you, then perhaps you could soften that portion of your profile to something like. "Some physical traits I find most attractive in a man are dark black skin and a height of six feet or more, but I am open to what God has for me." I think that would be better than 'dont waste your time white shawtys'...hehehe. Ok, I hope you know what I mean now : )
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 11:17 AM No I disagree because that is how you write from your perspective of the person who you are and that's how I write from the personality of who I am. You cant tell another person who or how to be. The way I write will attract the type of man that suits me as he will 'get' that language and relate to me as he will write things similar. Just because I am a Christian doesn't mean I have to now go all formal and nerdy and old fashioned. I'm still that street girl who I was, who is attracted to tall hot black men, only I know better in Jesus now and know I have to find a Christian one. God will bring him, I trust God!
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 11:27 AM And as well, looking back over my post, itis respectful anyway and not how you have written it. these are my words: I'm only attracted to black men, so respectfully I say don't waste your time if your not. And no shawty's, must be over 6 foot! There is nothing wrong with that! I'm comfortable with it! I think white men just get stressed because I wont entertain them. Black men are a true dominant race over white men from experience. White men age too quick as well and become old in their manners n thoughts. Black men stay younger longer and I'm young for my age. Peace!
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 11:33 AM You put it out there,Ferngirl----- so please don't get upset if you get responses from people who don't agree with your evaluation of white men. One thing you will learn in your walk with Christ is that sometimes it's wise to let your words be few. Deborah
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 11:41 AM I'm learning all the time and they came attacking me first with sarcasm and their opinions on me. All I do is defend myself and Im comfortable as God knows my heart. If they dont like my page or the way I speak, then go look at someone elses is what I say. Am going off to pray again!

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