Author	Thread: How come I'm ignored a lot?
aaengel View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 09:35 PM Hello, I'm not sure if other guys have had this experience, but I'd like to know why most of the women ignore me when I try to send a polite hello message to them? Are you intentionally ignoring us guys? I know I can see it when someone has read my message. Wouldn't it be better to say you're not interested... I'd rather have that. Please don't be rude anymore.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 06:45 AM SAFER? I don't get it! :MrT: chevy
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 08:01 AM Ya know, I can see you guys were being light hearted in the beginning of this thread. Ferngirl felt for the poster and was sticking up for him, not seeing seeing the humor. Why did her profile come into the discussion? Did did she ask for a profile review or to be critiqued because of her preference? If some of you guys don't care for something in her profile why don't you take to her in private and be gentle and leave it there... There no need for this! Two, yer a likable guy and love reading most of your posts but this is one of those times why people want to take you to task, you made it personal, goading her by bringing her preferences into this instead of leaving it alone or just helping her to see the previous comments were meant as humor.
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 08:31 AM @jjar THANKYOU VERY MUCH! I was only reaching to the original man who posted - yes - I just thank God that he has my back and understands me. I was muddled up as this is supposed to be a Christian site - the main reason I came on here as I thought it would be a cool place to meet good Christian men being recently baptised. I know I have a lot to learn in scripture but I also know I have a good heart and correct temperament. If I want to fall in love with a big tall black men, then, yes, it is my preference and that's what I desire and I know God will bring him for me.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 08:52 AM Chevy: Women generally want to be protected. Usually the bigger someone is, the better they are at protecting someone. If the woman is taller than the guy, then they usually feel like they could do a better job at protecting then the guy. Ferngirl has been hurt and she would like someone who she feels could really protect her, so she wants someone who is way taller than her. I see nothing wrong in her request. I have never thought of myself as being a strong guy. I tend to suffer from what I like to call �knight in shining armor syndrome�, and wish to be protective of my wife. If my wife is bigger than me, I would feel like she should be protecting me, and not the other way around. That is why I tend to prefer women who are shorter than me and slender. Now, I know that height and weight is not always a measure of how good someone is at protecting, so please don�t start in on me about this. It is simply a general feeling that most people have, and that is usually why women prefer men that are taller and men prefer women that are shorter. Ferngirl, Twosparrows, I haven�t followed the thread really closely, but I have a suspicion that your disagreement is over a miscommunication and not about a real issue. I suspect you are both on a similar page, but don�t realize it. I think you should both reread the thread and make friends.
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 08:58 AM @ Cobbler - yes you hit the nail on the head, I want a big tough, tall, broad black man to make me safe! And no Im not making friends with him, he's mean!
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 09:12 AM Jarr, I admire your tenacity, confidence and positive attitude, However, your barking up the wrong tree, you are a inch short and the wrong color, but I'll never blame a guy for trying. Btw If you read the thread, you will see BlueKnight is gone and all I said was judging by Ferngirl's profile she would give him a honest answer. When everything else came out I was silent until she alluded to those who commented on her profile as from the devil. Then I went the extra mile to help her see that how she phrases things in public will determine how people react. Therefore she shouldn't be upset if the rest of the world does not agree her world. Let me explain this way Jarr : Let's say you like to hunt. Depending on who you talk to hunting is the best sport in the world or you are a killer of Gods creatures, by murdering defenseless animals with high powered rifles. So if you put in your profile you like to hunt, no big deal....right? However if you put in your profile how you like to shoot animals and track them down untill they bleed to death. You would probably get some sarcastic remarks. If you don't want sarcastic remarks, what is the remedy? I tired to show this Ferngirl the remedy, however she has decided she has the right to say things however she wants and if anyone says anything she crys foul and takes the mantle of the "victim"...pleeeease. I see you live in Redding, you lucky son of a gun. God's country, Paradise is literally not far from you!
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 09:45 AM TS, there you go again.. knock em down then kick em...the mouth runneth overeth brother! I didn't see the other discussion to it's finally... if it's any reflection of this one I think I'll skip it. Besides what's that got to do with this post? I gotta go to work, maybe later we can start a new thread on how new Christian sisters can improve their profiles to conform to our liking, stating all the things we like to hear? Give it a rest TS
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 10:04 AM Give it a rest everyone from now! I would NEVER wish to create disharmony. Therefore I intercede as I ask you jesus to come with me to the father as i say Dear daddy, please heal this discussion. Come Holy Spirit we need you. I order you away from this thread and website devil in the mighty name of Jesus and I declare that no weapon formed against this thread or site shall prosper. As it is said it is done. Thankyou Father. Please bless and protect all members and I cover us all in the blood of the lamb of God for peace, blessings in abundance, wisdom, knowledge, kindness and patience. And all God's people say amen!
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 10:40 AM Geeze, Jarr, You and I are both Christians, about the same age, both in construction and live in rural areas in California, I am kidding around with you just like I was talking in person to one of my buddies. I would of said the same thing to them, but this medium of communication leaves to much room for misinterpretation of intention. Your not down, and I am not kicking you, however my mouth does runneth over at times, however this is not one of them. Ferngirl, You value frank speech. Therefore I will speak frankly : I understand you are a New Christian, but pleeeease, let the 'melodramatrics" die with the old self. It is not a gift of the Spirit and there are already to many in the Church already. If you were the least bit serious, you would be praying prayers, not posting them. I have two gifts for you, a suggestion and a meditation. Suggestion: Pray for a old Christian Woman to mentor you. A saying to meditate on: " It is the thing that happens, before the thing that happens, that causes the thing to happen." Wishing you the best ts
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 10:59 AM Cobbler--- I agree she has a right to her choice of who she desires to be her protector. But a 6 foot man can be more of a whimp sometimes than one who stands 5 feet tall. Ever heard dynamite comes in small packages? Just an observation---- Why does the cowboy always have to walk away? Two's right---- I saw no kicking:boxing: chevy

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