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How come I'm ignored a lot?
Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 09:35 PM

Hello,



I'm not sure if other guys have had this experience, but I'd like to know why most of the women ignore me when I try to send a polite hello message to them? Are you intentionally ignoring us guys? I know I can see it when someone has read my message. Wouldn't it be better to say you're not interested... I'd rather have that. Please don't be rude anymore.

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How come I'm ignored a lot?
Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 11:04 AM

Two sparrow - how dare you! God forgive you! that was a live holy prayer!



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 11:19 AM

I'm seriously confused. How, when and why is fern getting singled out and dogged. This is pretty ridiculous.



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 11:27 AM

Ferngirl,

There you go again!

I believe you honestly believe that.

Couldn't I say the same thing? : "How dare you use a prayer to dramatize a situation!"

To explain:

If You, I, Jarr or Chevy had a need that any of us could help with, don't you think any or all of us would jump in to help? This is a "Discussion" forum, people have different opinions and different ways of sharing them. People who play the victim and dramatize the situation as the work of Satan are actually doing more harm than good.

Now, you have a choice to accept the truth or bow up It is your choice to make, not mine.



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 11:30 AM

Brandon,

Because it is a discussion forum.



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 11:39 AM

Oh. Thanks twosparrows. So what's a discussion forum?



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 11:44 AM

Chevy, you are right, smaller guys can be some very tough guys. My brother is shorter than me, but is one very strong guy.



Just think of it this way: Would you feel more comfortable covering up with a blanket that is smaller than you are, or one that is larger than you? It�s just as much a feeling of protection as it is actual protection.



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:05 PM

interseting post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I find all this debate worth reading.

Have to think on it for awhile.

ferns profile is ok with me.She knows what she wants and says it.



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:07 PM

Brandon,

This particular forum is where Christians with different and the same perspectives can share, listen, interact, and engage one another on a variety of topics. These discussions take on a life of their own and there may be a number of discussions at once on diverse topics not related with the original.

The point of a discussion forum on a dating site is so you can know and be known as you interact with topics and other people. This is much better at revealing the true person than a neatly manicured profile.

Somehow I think you knew that already, but now I know you know.



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:12 PM

Gotcha Cobbler and I agree.

brandon--- a discussion forum is a place people go to discuss their views on anything from virginity to cheerleaders. Not EVERYONE agrees on EVERYTHING.

People offer help or their advice and if the other doesn't like the advice given they start crying--- What is That?



No one's arms are twisted to participate in the discussion--- if they are offended or don't like where the thread is going---

skip on out and see what guys or gals like for dinner.

In that discussion you can even tell them what you want to eat.

Being a new Christian is no excuse to be FRANK with everyone and expect no FRANKNESS back.



chevy



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Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:29 PM

Dennis,

Ferngirls, profile is Ok with me also, (in fact it was the first thing I posted). Therefore is not the point of my post as others are mislead to believe.

Here is the point of my post:

Ferngirl cannot have it both ways. A person has the right to post 'whatever' in their profile. However there are consequences to posting 'whatever'. So when a person posts 'whatever', 'however' they want without regard to how others may take it, they shouldn't complain and play the victim when different people take it different. They set it up to happen then blame everyone else. They want to be themselves, yet deny the right to others.

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