Author	Thread: How come I'm ignored a lot?
aaengel View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 09:35 PM Hello, I'm not sure if other guys have had this experience, but I'd like to know why most of the women ignore me when I try to send a polite hello message to them? Are you intentionally ignoring us guys? I know I can see it when someone has read my message. Wouldn't it be better to say you're not interested... I'd rather have that. Please don't be rude anymore.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:31 PM No, Two, there you go again. Accusing someone of being melodramatic while you throw out statements like "Now, you have a choice to accept the truth or bow up. It is your choice to make, not mine." Are you the author of truth? It's her choice to accept that what you say is truth? Yes, this is a discussion forum. But there is a big difference between discussing and attacking. You're not discussing anything with her. You're telling her that what you say is right and she can either except it or not. Where is the discussion in that? Her initial post was to 'discuss' the topic at hand...but some of you guys started 'discussing' her profile and put her on the defensive. It would have me, as well...she's not playing the victim, she is the victim. Brandon is right...this is ridiculous. 1. Her profile is not the topic of discussion but she is as entitled as anyone else here to her personal preferences in a partner. She didn't ask your opinion. 2. She comes from a different background, life experiences, and is a new Christian. She is coming into a "Christian community" to gain acceptance, support, understanding in walking out the Christian life...and this is what she is met with...a belittling of the way she expresses her understanding as well as her prayers? Exactly what is it that she is doing that is unbiblical...that is 'wrong'? Exactly who has the biggest responsibility here to bring peace and understanding, Chevy and Two? The more mature Christians who engaged in bring an individual's profile that was not under discussion into a public forum to be the topic of jest or the baby Christian that was trying to be helpful in answering a question and is now defending herself the best way she knows how? You want frank...I'll give ya frank. Y'all seem to be more interested in having a sparring match and winning an argument than showing the love of Christ. Sometimes, I really wish you guys would learn to lead with your hearts instead of your mouths.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:34 PM Agreed, Tulip~too many zealous Christians preaching too much prosperity pumping up poo poo and forgetting that we suffer, too. There is a balance and we are too be content with what He helps us to get to live not to be rich. If we do get a lot or rich it is our own doing and not Him dropping big greenback prayer blessings out of heaven. He give us the air we breath and the ability to make money. The rest is up to us, unless of course, someone is sick or disabled. I do feel He provides supernaturally at times, then.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:42 PM We should not hold a baby christian to higher standards. Do not give a baby a steak as they will choke and die. She is searching for who she is in Christ. THIS IS WRITTEN FROM SOMEBODY WHO DID THEY SAME THING 25 YEARS AGO. Give her some slack. let her learn. There was another way to say things.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 12:45 PM Sorry, off topic and hijacked a thread. To answer the first question~we all get ignored at times. Don't take it too personal. I try to answer everyone unless they have no picture. I put it in my profile that I don't respond to them. I think it is rude when you are conversing back and forth and a person does not answer back. He could at least say, " I don't think we will match or distance is too far" instead of the silent treatment.
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 01:08 PM @God's handiwork. You have read me 100 percent correctly and since I have prayed I see that God does have my back as I said and knew as he sent you to explain things and make it all good again. I wanted to holla at them just exactly what you wrote. I even tried to heal it with a prayer and then was attacked again. It's ok, it's not them, it's the devil trying me through them, but I won't bite the bait as I want to go to heaven. We are taught to love the sinner and hate the sin. Again I say that no weapon formed against me shall prosper and I take all thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ. amen And for the record, black men only, over 6 foot and must also be exceptionally good looking too ;-) Twosparrows, I descern you carry a spirit of ego and a need to be in charge. I will pray for you! all you others - do and say what you will. Jesus is my home boi!
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 01:09 PM @2spar: That's a crock. You're being mean. Knock it off.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 01:17 PM Godshandiwork, As a matter of fact her profile is the topic of discussion, whether or not it is the "posted topic" is irrelevant. People like yourself are trying to confuse the issue with.. "new christian'.. 'preferences in races'..' works of the devil' Am I the only one that isn't confused? *For the umfteen time this is about the delusion that you can say whatever you want without expecting any consequences.* Try reading the entire post. You can either accept the truth or build your own alternate reality where you come to rescue the victimized. Granted your reality appears much more valiant on the surface, however you must be willing to sacrifice the truth. It is difficult to enter into discussion with those who build alternate realities, there is very little if any common ground. Now you have a choice, (that is if you believe in absolute truth)... search out the truth and accept it or bow up and write your own. It is all here in this thread, I'm open minded, convince me, but please respect the truth and use more than smoke and mirrors!
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 01:23 PM Brandon, Thanks, that was a very informative contribution to the discussion! Perhaps you would like to expound, elaborate, share why you feel the way you do?
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 01:45 PM To all it may concern: The discussion about Ferngirls profile is NOT about her taste in men. It is NOT about her being a new Christian. It is NOT about racism. It is NOT about height. It is NOT what I think of her profile. It is NOT what I think of her. *This IS what it is about: It is delusional to think you can write whatever you want and expect no comments. If you all really cared for Ferngirl you would try to help her see that. As for the melodrama :How would you take it if I posted a prayer right now asking God to open the eyes of the blind? What would your reaction be? Hmmm... maybe it is not such a bad idea
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 02:04 PM @2sparr Patronise, call me, rip me to shreds if it makes you feel better. Your constant ranting is ousting you to everyone anyway. You're just obviously one of those dudes who always thinks he is right and has to have the last word. Prob jealous coz I'd never look at someone like you in a million years coz yr uncool, not hot, old, grumpy, a moaner and a know it all - oh yeah n yr not black n beefy n over six foot! If I wasn't a new Christian, you'd have been highly publicly humiliated at what I would have previously written back in the day, but I am blessed so will rise up and fall back from this negative. What is right for you in your world DOES NOT MAKE you the source of wisdom and truth. Jesus is the way, the truth and the light and if you weren't so hot headed and aggrivated, you would have seen fit in God's truth and gone off to pray on this thread like I did and ask Holy Spirit to guide you on what to say. Here's a tip for you Mr. Dish out advice when no-one asked for it - get on yr knees and pray and reject yr spirit of ego!

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