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Where are the young believing men in Yeshua?
Posted : 21 Jan, 2012 03:52 PM

Hello Ladies:



I have noticed that there are a lot of young ladies on this site looking for a husband;

Many under the age of 25.



WHY?



What is the problem with the local assemblies of believers;

Are there not young believing men in Yeshua within the assemblies?



So sad that so many young women have to be on this site to seek a believing man as a husband.



Shalom

Farmer

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Where are the young believing men in Yeshua?
Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 12:47 PM

That is a major problem in many churches right now. Many men graduate high school, or enter college and either move away and fall out of church, or just lose interest because the next step in the church is joining a "Singles Ministry", or just being tossed in with the rest of the congregation. I say it that way because many high school ministries bottle feed their students and then once they graduate, expect them to know exactly how to interact with the congregation they have been separate form all their lives.



I've seen it happen with many girls too. But with guys it seems to be a mass exodus.

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Where are the young believing men in Yeshua?
Posted : 23 Jan, 2012 05:27 AM

Purely speculative, but I'd guess that's because women are inherently more social than men; it's less of a system shock to them. After all, how many women go for a night out by themselves compared to men?

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Where are the young believing men in Yeshua?
Posted : 29 Jan, 2012 09:38 PM

i know this is ask a girl,but i gotta jump in here,just to say," i remember my exodus from the congregate.and i remember why too.wanna know why? i'll tell You.

drudgery!!! the youthful male is pretty much ignored until there is some arduous task noone else is willing to do,and then His is told,told!not asked,to do it,and or even volunteered without even His knowledge.little less willingness. what is ironic is i am now a 40 something divorced male,and they(usually the Ladies Fellowship) still try to do this nonsense....

lol,seem the only escape is marriage,hahahahaaa.

or, just stop attending?

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