Author	Thread: charm and romance
FocusIsEverything View Profile History	charm and romance Posted : 10 Mar, 2012 01:32 PM if a guy isnt charming nor romantic how can he get a christian woman's attention? should he even try? or should he just be laid back and let whatever will happen just happen (let god be dr. love as some ppl say) ? the bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing. however in order to find anything (not just a woman) one has to look right? any ladies care to comment Post Reply
View Profile History	charm and romance Posted : 10 Mar, 2012 06:51 PM If a guy thinks he isnt charming and romantic,then he should go back to the stone age:-D. Seriously Focus, I think everyone should be responsible enough to take care of themselves as the temple of God,and the rest will follow. Personally, I never look for charm and romance in a man,but good grooming:) so there are different ladies who thinks differently. One should never give up hope. Post Reply
kay_cat View Profile History	charm and romance Posted : 11 Mar, 2012 07:45 AM it depends on how you define �charming� or �romantic.� I�m assuming you�re not referring to physical traits here. I do agree with you that to a certain extent, charming/romantic people are more attractive, as they usually know what to say or how to behave to attract attention. However, past experiences have taught me to be wary of these �techniques�. these traits alone are not a good foundation for a lasting relationship. There should also be trust, love, respect and real selfless caring for a relationship to bloom (1 Cor. 13). I guess you should find that special someone whom you wouldn�t mind making the extra effort to be charming and romantic with �cause she�d be all worth it. Post Reply
KristenJJ View Profile History	charm and romance Posted : 27 Mar, 2012 09:12 PM I dont think you should be something you aren't to get any woman's attention. There are plenty of men out there who lay on the charm... be the unique man God made you and be confident in that. You have to put forth effort to show who you are of course... put yourself out there, talk, ask a woman about herself, share things about what matters to you... but just relax. Don't worry so much about whether you are romantic or charming. You want to be respected and truly loved by a woman for who you really are. Do we women like romance? Sure. Do we like it when you make an extra effort? YES! But find your own way to do that. You'll be fine. Don't give up on yourself and pray for God to guide you. Post Reply
View Profile History	charm and romance Posted : 6 Apr, 2012 12:42 PM I think most or all guys can be charming/romantic in their own way such as being silly, joking, poetic, etc. It all depends on the guys own style to show and express to a girl da way he feels bout her. But, if u dont do anything to grab her attention then she will never know; and she will just think dat u jus want to b friends and nothin else. Post Reply