Thread: What kind of HEADLINE to a guy or gal's profile peek your interest the MOST ...
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What kind of HEADLINE to a guy or gal's profile peek your interest the MOST ...
Posted : 24 Apr, 2012 11:40 AM
... encouraging your romantic heart to read the rest of their profile to see if the two of you might have Something Barefoot Special to build a loving, romantic relationship on? And what are some of your FAVORITE types of "Headlines" to see?
How much of a difference does their "Headline" make to your heart in reading ALL of a guy or gal's profile?
I've tried several different "Headlines" over the years that I've been here on CDFF, and I've just recently changed my "Headline" again, hoping the new one might make MORE of a difference in getting positive responses than any of the previous "Headlines" did ... my new "Headline" honestly expresses the five MOST important LOVES IN COMMON that I'm looking for in a gal to build a LASTING LOVE RELATIONSHIP on that leads our hearts to fall in love with each other and desire to become husband and wife for the rest of our lives, with our Lord and Savior in our hearts and at the CENTER of our BAREFOOT ROMANTIC TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP!!! :-)
What kind of HEADLINE to a guy or gal's profile peek your interest the MOST ...
Posted : 10 May, 2012 07:44 AM
Oh I was looking for a place to post this, LOL.
A HUGE turn off to me is to read a man's profile and they write about owning a house and a nice car...blah blah blah. It's great to know a woman would have a secure future, and we don't want to struggle financially the rest of our lives but guys, come on. I'm not on here to find the man with the fancy car and home. That does NOT impress me. As a matter of fact, it's boastful.
I don't look at the headline so much as the profile. But here's my problem with mens' profiles on here. With the men, they describe themselves more like an ad in the newspaper. And I don't mean to hurt anybody's feelings but it's the truth. Be real! Men, it's the old "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" thing. Open up a little and describe yourself more. Tell what you want in a woman, and what EMOTIONAL traits you have to offer a woman. "Single male looking for his Queen" does nothing for me. It sounds fake. Ohhh and whatever you do, don't put in your profile that you want the woman to be submissive to you. Hold on now...let me finish. RESPECT is different. Respect for each other has to be there. And I respect a man being head of the household...when it comes to being the Christian leader in the family, for his kids to live by, and by his partner's side...don't walk in front of me, or behind me spiritually, walk beside me. If you come across as being my boss....profile TOSSED. I want a Christian man to read the Bible with, and pray with. But not someone who thinks the meaning of "head of household" means he controls everything. Be clear on that one gentlemen.
If you have kids, talk a lil about your kids. (Quite a few male members do talk about their kids.) BUT, I read an AMAZING profile on here that really stood apart from others a while back. This was GREAT for those women who are mothers, even if their children don't live at home.
The gentleman said that he would accept his partner's children, and would not stand in the way of them talking to their fathers (he wouldn't try to take the place of their real fatherP) and he said he would teach his children to respect the woman in his life.
To know a gentleman would treat my boys as he treats his own children is a MAJOR plus in my book! And that he would teach his children to respect the woman in his life is amazing. If someone doesn't grow to love and respect my children, there's the door..and I'll be clear about it.
If a man doesn't (sincerely) write something about the Lord, it's out too. If he isn't a Christian, that profile gets tossed.
Whatever you do, don't message and call a woman "gorgeous" and "beautiful" and all that when you don't even know her. Scammers do that, and even if you're sincere, I'll report it to the admin to see if it's safe to talk to you. cuz that's what scammers do. Simply say something to the effect of "Just wanted to let you know I liked your profile", and mention the things that you have in common with her.
Hope I didn't offend anyone because that isn't my intention AT ALL. I'm not asking for a professional author or anything. But be sincere. And for Pete's sake do a spell check before submitting your profile. This may be just picky on my part, but I can't stand for a 40 year old man to misspell simple words. The word, when referring to one, is womAn, not womEn. I see that all the time and it drives me nutts. More than one is womEn.
I don't want to be known as "picky" or that I won't be with a man because he doesn't do everything like I do. But some things help.
