Author	Thread: Why would a girl . . .
IaoKim View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 9 May, 2012 07:24 PM Why would a girl send me a message filled with compliments over my profile and say how hard it is to find a guy like me and then after one round of exchanging messages she suddenly stops responding and then deletes her profile altogether?! Needless to say this happened to me recently haha. It is not the first time something similar has happened and it puzzles me every time. I mean I'm 99% positive it wasn't anything I said unless discussing mutual interests is now blatantly offensive lol. I would hope I'm not capable of shattering an overwhelmingly positive perception of me based on my profile in the span of just a few rounds of exchanging messages! lol I supposes there are a million reasons why someone could do this and all those reasons just love to race through my mind trying to find the answer haha. I have just come to accept the fact that it will happen more often than not and that is just the nature of meeting people online. And I know both guys and girls alike do this, so don't think I'm just picking on the girls here haha. Sigh, another one bites the dust haha. At least that is one more person that I know isn't right for me! Just keep swimming and keep my eyes on Jesus! :) So what do y'all think? -Anthony Post Reply
View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 9 May, 2012 09:22 PM I have a few thoughts on why, but it would all be speculation. Each case is different. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 9 May, 2012 09:22 PM Truthfully, she may have been rejected by someone else or felt uptight about having responded to either you or someone else and simply deleted her profile as the easiest way out. People do it all the time for those exact reasons. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 10 May, 2012 06:37 AM Maybe she found her man... But I think it would have been nice of her to tell you if you were really getting on well. Also it could be that she just got tired of all the dating thing,or maybe she wasnt serious about anyone at all. Keep the faith anyway. Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 10 May, 2012 07:48 AM Or, perhaps her husband caught on to what she was doing??? Post Reply
View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 10 May, 2012 11:10 AM lol NRSV. I never thought that far. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 10 May, 2012 04:38 PM Maybe she ran with Fear instead of surrendering in Faith...and sometimes...people really do not know what they are actually looking for...:rolleyes:...hang in there...and know that God has a awesome plan for you...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 10 May, 2012 05:19 PM Maybe we shouldn't assassinate this girl's character over an issue that likely has little to do with the OP. Chances are she was communicating with other people, both IRL and online, and for whatever reason chose to discontinue this site. Post Reply
IaoKim View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 10 May, 2012 05:43 PM It is definitely not the intention of the OP to attack someone's character. If anything it was to simply share my experience and ask generally why people do this so often on these dating sites. I think you're right truefriend, whatever someone's reasons for discontinuing an on-going conversation, it would be nice for that person to at least tell you that they are discontinuing communications and why. It just seems like a small simple act of courtesy towards another person. Just to be clear I hold nothing against the girl personally, I'm sure she had very legitimate and proper reasons for leaving the site and discontinuing communications. It would just be nice to at least receive a simple message like, "Hey it has been great talking with you, but for x, y, and z I have decided to leave the site and/or stop communicating with you." Post Reply
View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 11 May, 2012 04:17 PM Maybe she found someone on this site and is dating now. Or maybe she is on another site now. Both men/women are on several different sites and eventually, they meet someone of interest. IMO Post Reply
vsvitto29 View Profile History	Why would a girl . . . Posted : 19 May, 2012 04:49 PM ever thought that she was just fake?just because its a christian site doesn't mean everyone is christian Post Reply