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Some questions
Posted : 27 Mar, 2013 04:26 PM

I have some questions I would like to ask and I am interested in reading the responses. A lot of these questions mainly applies to a guy trying to understand a woman but also can be applicable to me in some cases.



1. How much does hobbies matter in a relationship? Are they an important factor or just something that couples can participate in on the weekend for fun?



2. When in a relationship, how long before political views are discussed?



3. Do disagreements over the non-essentials of Christianity between couples have an effect upon the success of the relationship?



4. Would you date a guy who was a metrosexual ( spend a lot of time on his appearance etc.?



5. How much influence does your family or friends have on how you view dating/relationship?



6. On this site, I have found to my surprise that females have different views on drinking and how much affection is okay. For example, some believe drinking one or two glasses of wine is okay. Some believe kissing and cuddling are all right but others as well do not believe in drinking or engaging in activities such as kissing and cuddling.



Forgive me for my previous hasty generalization in that I thought all Christian females didn't believe in even one glass or bottle of alcohol and didn't believe in kissing etc. outside of a marriage context. What females believe about these topics, is their thinking guided mainly through interaction with their peers on the matter or is this affected through upbringing?



I will probably have more questions to ask but that is all I can come with up at the moment. I look forward to hearing responses.

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kuria

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Some questions
Posted : 31 Mar, 2013 05:37 PM

Unfortunately, most of the answers to your questions vary from person to person just as they do woman to woman. These are good questions, don't get me wrong. They are questions you'd want to discuss openly with whomever you are looking at as potential people to date/marry/befriend/whatever. I feel that answering the questions one by one would only give you this woman's perspective. Background, past experiences, upbringing, culture, and many other things can change the answers in extreme ways. I hope you find your answers, but I hope you don't try to find an answer that fits everyone's opinion as there probably isn't one. I wish you the best on your search.

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