Author	Thread: starting & ending conversations
Admin	starting & ending conversations Posted : 4 Dec, 2014 11:16 PM There are two different people: There are people who like to start things and there are those who like to finish things. I happen to be the latter one. I like to leave no work undone. However, when it comes to this online dating, I am the former. I like to start conversations, but the more I learn, I am trying to find a way to exit and leave. So, I am eager to start conversations, but I am also eager to stop them and move on. Why is this? There are so many people on this dating site. I wish I could spend 10-30 minutes with each woman here. I could imagine drinking my morning coffee with a different girl everyday. I like to talk to different people. But I have noticed that I dread long conversations with uninteresting people. Everybody looks like a wonderful & interesting person while you don't know them, and after awhile you realize they are not interesting. I think, an important skill in dating is how to get rid of people discreetly. I don't mean killing them. I mean how to say "good bye" in a courteous and friendly manner without hurting the other person. That's an art! And one reason why many people hate dating is because they hate rejecting people. But you have to reject people over and over again. And it's really hard! So, I have a love-hate relationship with dating. I guess I like to talk to new people. But I don't like telling them "ok. I think, I had enough." So, by now I have reached a point where I don't even want to start talking to anyone, because I am already thinking about how to get out of the conversation before I even start it. I just don't feel like talking to anyone. I wish I was married, but I don't want to talk to people. I am also an introvert, but that's another thing. For the past year or so, I have not been in the mood to talk to anyone at length. It drains my energy. And every conversation is fruitless. It's just a waste of time. I don't know why I feel this way. But I am so bored of doing this! :P Post Reply
tiingy View Profile History	starting & ending conversations Posted : 10 Dec, 2014 07:38 AM If l could make a suggestion.. the entire thing you posted was about you. l would like to suggest praying about it and letting God lead you to the right person. maybe a change of perspective is all you need? Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	starting & ending conversations Posted : 10 Dec, 2014 11:54 PM don't depend on cdff. it's not helping your situation. Post Reply
View Profile History	starting & ending conversations Posted : 13 Dec, 2014 02:27 PM I'm not depending on cdff. Of course, there are other dating sites too. ;) But if there was no technology, I'd be worried. The internet connects everybody to everybody else. It's a wonderful invention that didn't exist hundreds of years ago. You know, we are VERY PRIVILEGED to live in the 21st century!!! Post Reply