Author	Thread: need a little help
Admin	need a little help Posted : 22 Oct, 2009 11:13 PM so single mothers. a women i like is a single mother..... dating a women with a kid is kind of new to me. any pointers? Post Reply
View Profile History	need a little help Posted : 23 Oct, 2009 04:43 AM ne honest dont push too hard with the kids but do NOT ignore the fact that she has them.. take it slow and remember those kids will always be in her life so you will need to love them as well as her if it will work God Bless Post Reply
View Profile History	need a little help Posted : 23 Oct, 2009 09:55 AM Okay I don't think there's really a rule to follow. Now this woman you like also plays a big role in how your relationship will work out & what you should be doing so it's not all on you. For example you need to find out from her, lets say has she been dating alot? has she had a long term relationship with anyone after her divorce ? (I'm assuming she's divorced) are her kids/kid (not sure one or more) okay with her dating someone else?, their past reaction to the situation if she's been dating, how old are her kids? How is her relationship with her ex.? how long has she been divorced? etc. I think you get the picture. If you want to get involved with a woman that has kids, she needs to provide you with alot more informtion to make it easier on you, herself and the kids on how to deal with the situation. Kids are a blessing, but no matter what you're still going to be a stranger to them, so don't just show up at the house without getting more information about them. Talk to her and pray together on how to approch the issue and wait on the Lord, pray some more and be patient as it says in your profile. God Bless Post Reply
View Profile History	need a little help Posted : 24 Oct, 2009 04:16 PM professional advice which i have read is not to get involved with the date's kids and not to form a relationship until wedding plans are being made. Also the advice includes the parent should be focusing on their children and not the dating scene. However, we all know how that is easier to give advice than to live with it. Post Reply
View Profile History	need a little help Posted : 24 Oct, 2009 04:44 PM dear jessie, always try to put yourself in the childrens shoes.. think how you would feel about whatever if you was them... and then treat em accordingly.. ole cattle Post Reply
mariangela View Profile History	need a little help Posted : 25 Oct, 2009 06:49 PM Love the kids, and accept them as part of the relationship, Be sincere. Thats the best advice I can give you. Regards Mariangela Post Reply
lordsgirl View Profile History	need a little help Posted : 30 Oct, 2009 09:27 PM we single women can be protective of our 'cubs', unless she gives you free 'reign', remember you are a friend not their daddy, especially if their dad is still in the picture. when the relationship gets more serious discuss boundaries with you and the children, ensure that she teaches them to respect you as you respect them. i say this because children can become a little 'misbehaved' when someone is taking the attention of their mommy from them. all in all enjoy them along with her!:applause: lordsgirl Post Reply