Author	Thread: Ladies, what should a man have on his pro?
Admin	Ladies, what should a man have on his pro? Posted : 22 Jun, 2010 10:09 AM I think mine's too simple. I mean I'd like to say I'm wanting a long term relationship but for now I'd just like to make friends. I know jumping the friends part only causes problems cause it's best to get to know each other and know that you're compatiable before jumping into a relationship. But yea I eventually would like to get in a long term relationship that I hope leads to marriage if I found the right girl, but also when I say the right girl the one who I have chemistry with and just the one God has picked for me and me for her. I want to be ordained, blessed. But anyway, what things should a guy put in his profile and what things should he leave out? And also do pictures really have that much of an impact on your interest in a guy? I gotta say mine aren't the best pictures and I plan on getting some better ones on my pro. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, what should a man have on his pro? Posted : 23 Jun, 2010 02:45 AM I'm no lady but i'll take a stab at this anyway. It's about getting some one to respect you first and foremost. Simple is good but what you are lacking to include on there are things you do that build that respect. First you have to respect yourself before other people will. So chew on that for a while. Then when actually writing it, be multidimensional. Say a little about things you've accomplished. Say a little about things you're working on. Say a little about what you enjoy doing. Etc. Just put down what you do that's impressive and be true to yourself and what's important to you. If you saw a file labeled "something that appeals to you" you'd double click it and find out what's in there. same concept. It's a balance. You're putting yourself out there to be judged but make sure to remember that the only person whose opinion matters most to you is you. My profile would be a bad example of this because I'm not really trying. Hang in there bro, you can do it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, what should a man have on his pro? Posted : 23 Jun, 2010 10:58 AM Also when actually interacting conduct yourself as a winner. They say things like 'i want a man' or 'a guy that's funny, smart, etc, etc.' and we don't really know what that looks like exactly cause the parameters for that are so insanely broad. But that's what that means. Have the poise, demeaner, leadership, confidence/certainty, and joy of a winner. One that goes out and works hard for what he wants. Figure out what you want figure out how to get it, go out and do it, and don't stop till you get it. Even if at first it's no fun it's worth it. Otherwise you'll just be another guy letting life walk all over him with no self respect or identity. Winners are strong enough that they can be nice and polite gentlemen, and at the same time stand up and kick anybody in the face that tries to walk on them. Women don't dislike guys just because they dislike guys. They don't like the guys they don't like because they aren't (or don't think they are) in their league. Fortunatly it's all up to you so choose to be a winner. Which is where knowing how to show that you are a person to respect comes into play so that as time goes on you can then get to relate to each other on a personal level. Oh yeah and get into reading as a hobby. You'll find that it will cause you to have a more colorful vocabulary, and the ability to articulate and think outside the rut and randomly come up with good ideas or interesting thoughts because the abstract part of your mind is being stimulated. Your interest in things and finding interest in things around you will grow as well. Which is all great for having good communication and being more appealing and smooth. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, what should a man have on his pro? Posted : 25 Jun, 2010 11:20 PM First and formost: Be Honest. Be honest about your good traits as well as the bad; the places in your life where you "won" and those where you felt like a failure. What are YOUR interests? What do you REALLY enjoy doing? If it's hunting, say so. If it's hanging out at the mall, say so. What kind of music do you listen to? Classical? Jazz? Blues? Country? Acid rock? Reggae? Is it always Christian or do you listen to "secular" music, too? Do you like to read? Who is your favorite author? Why? What movies/TV do your watch? Why? Are you into sports? What kind(s)? Would (I) be a "Sports Widow" if (I) dated/married you? What exactly are you looking for in a woman? Why? Does she have to look a certain way? Why? If (I) am thin now but get "pleasantly plump" as (I) get older will you hold that against me? Why? What do you NOT want in the women you meet here? What is a big turn-off for you? Why? No "sexy" talk. Save that for later- MUCH later. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, what should a man have on his pro? Posted : 26 Jun, 2010 06:15 PM women would really like to get to know a guy she is interested in. interest in this case is solely based on the fact that she clicked on you profile. personally i prefer profiles that reflect a lifestyle; meaning it is personal. you talk about what you like, where you have been and/or want to go. stop putting so much pressure on yourself, no-one's judging you and for sure not everyone will like you. it's not always good to have a plethora of choices stop trying to cast such a wide net. focus on God and the women will be drawn to you! Post Reply