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Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 03:56 PM

hi everyone! i have a few questions for all of you.i am a new beginner at this and i have never dated in my own country but was trying for a while but with no success.that is why i have tried this site.i have met someone here since last week and i'm trying my best to message her at least every two or three days a week. my question is do you think that this speed (or level)at this time or is it too slow? i ask this because iknow that it looks bad to call a girl you just met every hour or week on the phone or giving her messages or email every five minutes a day since that makes you look like a sick man or a stalker.my next question is that if you met someone what is the right way to talk someone without looking like your your desperatly want someone so badly?

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 04:23 PM

My suggestion is to just write her back within a day or two of receiving her message instead of putting a number on how many times a week you intend to message her.

As far as not wanting to come off like you're desperate to be with somebody, the best solution there is to actually not be desperate to be with somebody.

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 04:59 PM

to mr. tulip, thankyou so for the advice! i needed at this time.

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 06:10 PM

You're welcome. We can't hurry God's timing, so we have no reason to be anxious, right?

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