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Why do you seekmuch younger men or women, if you trust Elohim?
Posted : 21 Aug, 2012 04:24 PM

I have noticed that many, and I do mean MANY women on here, who are from their forties to sixties, have listed the age of the men they are considering to be worthy for a relationship, from 15 years younger, to maybe 2 to 5 years older.



I see many profiles with women 50, who are seeking men 35 t0 52, and some do not want a man older than they..



Women 48 want men 25-45, and this is to be found on nearly every profile..



Why do you think that this is occurring?



It is because of lust, pure and simple. Older women seek younger men, because they think they are healthier and more virile.



It is obvious what they are after..



It serves to stand, that if a man is chosen because he is younger, what happens when the woman gets older? Won't he be thinking that he needs a younger woman?



And women, I know that this goes both ways.



Is this righteous behavior or wicked?



If someone truly trusted the Father, wouldn't they want whatever age man or woman, He sent, knowing that His will is perfect?



Your thoughts?



Shalom!

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Posted : 21 Aug, 2012 05:37 PM

Great post, I was wondering the same thing myself, so I'm glad you asked the question, however, I noticed no reply, :laugh:



I was asking this same question about a week ago on the live forum chat and was kind of ignored as well. I think you are right, my reason exactly for not listing a younger man, of course he will want a younger woman a few years down the road, kind of common sense actually. As far as the man, wanting a younger woman, I'm sure it feeds his ego, but to hook up with someone the age of your offspring to me is kind of strange cause what would you have in common actually.



You answered your own question, in that YHWH knows everything, so of course he knows what is best for everyone!

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Posted : 21 Aug, 2012 08:47 PM

I am looking for a younger woman because of several reasons.



1. I have never had children and I would love to be a father, God willing.



2. Women my age are going through or are about to go through menopause.



3. Most older women have already had children and do not want to start over.



4. I will not marry a divorced woman.



5. I am a virgin and I am looking for virgin.



How many women 40+ are everything I described?

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Posted : 22 Aug, 2012 12:22 AM

My age settings are for men in my age group. However, most men in my age group want women 15+ years younger and that maybe why they are still single.lol



I did meet a couple of nice guys on here my age group and talking now, no real connection yet.



People on Christian sites still have preferences and looks are very important to most men as well.

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Posted : 22 Aug, 2012 12:00 PM

Apostelle: Your reasons describe my situation exactly. Great post!

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Posted : 22 Aug, 2012 08:41 PM

Glad to see that Im not the only oldish guy here who has remained devout to the Word of God, Quadrafire. God bless, brother.

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2012 05:04 PM

Actually, I am planning my marriage to my lady who is 13 years younger than I am but we are very equal in our faith and expression of our love for God.



Age is less important to maturity..........

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