Natz promotes this site as teaching truth so I figured I'd see what it said.
Here goes....
A helper is one who serves another. It is not a lowly calling, for even Yahushua came to serve:
Matthew 20:28 - Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.
Her role is to serve and help her husband. Yet, scripture is quite clear that wives are to be the submissive partner in a marriage:
Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in Yahweh.
It is the correct and fitting thing to do. It is part of the duty and role of a wife. But how extensive is it to be? Is it just in the major decisions that are made or is it in every single little thing? Let's examine:
Eph 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto Yahweh. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Messiah is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Messiah, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Submit, as unto Yahweh? In every thing? Yes, this is what the scriptures teach. A wife should be submissive to her husband as if she is submitting to Yahweh Himself. We know that Yahweh desires us to submit to His will in everything, even the small things. Even so, a wife should submit to her husband in everything, including the small things. Whether he says, "Let's do it this way" or (rudely) "Please go and get my shoes", she should treat it as a command from Yahweh. A husband should not act like He IS Yahweh, but a wife should submit to her husband's word as if it is Yahweh's word (unless of course, he tells her to sin). It should be done cheerfully and without complaining or even a hint of displeasure. Perhaps this seems silly and trite to some, but we need to remember that our actions are not only on display before Yahweh, but also in front of our children. Because the relationship of the wife and husband is a mirror of the relationship of the assembly and the Messiah, she is setting the example to the children of how wonderful and blessed it is to be obedient to the Messiah when she is being obedient to her husband. If she has any hint of rebellion or resentment at what the husbands speaks, believes, requests or demands, she is teaching her children how to be rebellious by her example.
If you click on the link(http://www.eliyah.com/family/wives.html) you will see that there is more to the article than this. However I thought this was sufficient.
It's disturbing to me that one would twist scripture to fit what they desire and how exactly they desire it, instead of doing everything in love and seeking the Lord in marriage. I mean I'm the farthest thing from a feminist, and believe arguing over small things is trivial, but this is a bit tilted in a sickly direction/wrong turn.
The Holy Bible teaches what a man should be to his wife and what a wife should be to her own husband. They two shall be One. God should be the head of the Man ; it God is not leading the man. He does not know who to be an effect
head of the family. A woman is not to follow a man who is not following Jesus; if she is a child of God she is to follow the Word of God.
Men who are not Christ like maybe doing anything and everything.
1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.
