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Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 06:38 AM

I am wondering if anyone has had any connections with this or any other site. It seems that my friend (pretty and smart girl) has been doing all the major ones for 2 years and has gone out on dates , ect. but nothing! What advice could you give me- newly seperated and just putting myself out there should someone come along and be decent. I will not miss them. I keep getting the non-attractive, from another country,disabled, dirt poor or really old responders. I have no predijuce but come on, they have to have something going for them!

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Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 07:27 AM

Advice would be to get divorced before being on these sites. Most serious guys are not going to talk to someone that is still married to their husband. Also, there should be biblical reason that this course of action has happened, or most guys on this site are going to pass you over, also.

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Posted : 28 Sep, 2011 07:31 AM

well i do believe you have to be attracted to the person. but i do think you should lower your standards a little bit. im not saying settle for less. im just saying as I read your post i am saddened.

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Posted : 30 Sep, 2011 06:57 AM

Thanks for that advice it may be soon (5 mos.) but in Nc you have to live seperate for 1 year to get the final divorce paper (technicality) My STBX choose to date during the marriage so I have just cause and am in right standing with God. Just wanted to do my part and put myself out there should God have plans for me to open any doors.

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Posted : 30 Sep, 2011 07:03 AM

You should not be saddened, I just do not want to repeat others mistakes and never been on a dating site before. I do not have too high standards. I would rather be alone and happy then with the wrong person and unhappy again!

Most people do not like themselves enough to be happy alone. I see it as I always have God with me anywhere I go and anything I am going through.:purpleangel:

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Posted : 30 Sep, 2011 10:28 AM

Well on this site or not I hope You Find That LOVe Your looking for:)

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