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Zuri79

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Posted : 19 Oct, 2011 09:10 AM

Okay so I know I am a beautiful woman, I have a nice career, I am smart and loving but this site will have you feeling self conscious. I don't know how to online date. I am sending winks, messages and no response. Can anyone give me some pointers

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Posted : 19 Oct, 2011 04:21 PM

LOL. Don't feel insecure or self conscious. It may not be you. "Online dating" may not be for everyone. It is harder & slower. Some people probably are afraid to try and make a connection,just be patient or maybe some aren't serious, some looking for a certain someone,or maybe because the distance. Maybe you can try and spark up a great & entertaining convo- make jokes,talk about some great and positive things and such.Don't feel bad. Just becareful of weirdos on the site. I personally am not on this site to find my soul mate. I'm just on here to chat with other christians and so on. Their is quite a few nice people on here. Have a blessed day ! =)

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Posted : 19 Oct, 2011 07:40 PM

Good advice, yeah online dating can be more difficult while also dodging people who aren't serious.

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Zuri79

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2011 03:56 AM

Thank you fried chicken. This online thing is not what I expected.

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2011 12:16 PM

Just have faith dont give up, the special one is out there be patience, believe me I know I am alone like 7 years. Maybe the Lord is getting you ready for that person or getting ready your future mate for the blessing. Read psalm 37. 3-5. is very nice. About on line well dont know much but the one will come on his time on line or not. Well, God Bless you and your family.

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2011 05:15 AM

Thats the way that I use to feel but I realized that some people may not have a physical attraction to my look and wasnt turned on by my description...we're human.



Some things I did was changed my picture and broke down my narrative so its easier to read and find what a woman wants to know about me without having to read about the things that she dont.



Btw, this is a website like most dating websites were image and physical attactiveness sticks out first. When we scroll down the list in our advance search some of us are picking and choosing on the physical first and then the narrative. Maybe men do it more so then women...I do it.

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