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preciouschristine

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Posted : 27 Jan, 2012 07:35 PM

why is it that most guys would wink or message you here on cdff, then they suddenly disappear when u reply? lol

guys, can u please post of comment of why is that then? what could be the possible factors? distance? :glow:

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Posted : 27 Jan, 2012 11:25 PM

You should post this in the "Ask Guys" section because I am wondering the same thing!



Personally I think it has a lot to do with distance. I mean what is the reality of someone wanting to have a long distance relationship when they can possibly find someone who lives in their area on here. Its too bad though, because NO one lives in my area lol.



It could have to do with the fact that they don't think your profile matches what they are looking for though. Not sure.

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Posted : 28 Jan, 2012 02:13 PM

Are these guys ones who just never answer you back again... or members that are banned or delete their profile? There are some spam profiles on here. I'm not exactly sure what the users are hoping to get out of it, but they keep coming back under the guise of new profiles. I've received several emails from gals on here who seemed as if they'd be interesting to know more about, but they are banned/deleted quickly thereafter, and so... they are probably just scamming for email addresses or money... or who knows what else.



If you are referring to guys who are active members and who remain active members after you reply to THEIR wink, then they are either winking to far more girls than you think they are... and so... on second thought... they don't have time to get back to you after you replied.... OR... there is something in your reply that they are troubled over.

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Posted : 7 Feb, 2012 04:12 AM

the problem is that they are here for something else which cannot be expose is best know to them , keep it up serios one will come God bless u

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preciouschristine

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Posted : 8 Feb, 2012 01:58 AM

merseylee: yeahhhhh could be the reason is distance hehe ,, but why do they have to wink or message u when they already saw your profile and your location hahah :D maybe just the sudden change of mind... or in few seconds and minutes they found another profile they think is the best right?:glow:

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Posted : 8 Feb, 2012 02:03 AM

cowboybuck: yeahhhhhh some are banned and deleted... its just so disapointing like you are already talking everyday then they are suddenly banned the next day hahaha :D

some are also active members, it could also be possible that they are winking many girls on the site.. sometimes im straightforward if i reply heheh :D :peace:

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Posted : 8 Feb, 2012 02:04 AM

palipaforjesus: heheh thanks! i know that my man's gonna come heheh in God's perfect timing :D:hearts:

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Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 12:34 AM

Hey I wonder why a man will wink or message you and will not respond when you finally write back. I donot think the problem is distance though, i think maybe the reply you give does not help to build conversation. One thing i have realised is that women always expect the man to lead the conversation. To have a good friendship/relationship, i think you just need to be able to also be inquisitive or seem interested in the man.



All the best ladies!!!:prayingm:

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preciouschristine

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Posted : 10 Feb, 2012 12:17 AM

bon10: well i do reply their message with a sense and even a question to keeo the conversation... cause if im not interested with the person i would not reply at all :D hehehe

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