Author	Thread: Hi! just wondering
Admin	Hi! just wondering Posted : 20 Jul, 2014 12:00 AM I just wondering, is there anyone here want to flight to meet someone If he is serious with someone :-), eventhough she is come from another country and even so so far away. I am sad when I already get to know godly men here and get along with them, even I admire some of them :-) and always ended with "If you live in my country you are type of woman I wanted to marry" Oh sadness :). I know God has plan, I don't give up I hope still there are many godly man God prepares for me. God Bless You All :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! just wondering Posted : 25 Jul, 2014 01:42 AM I am sure there are men like that. When a man really wants a woman, he will do whatever he can to capture her heart- and her hand in marriage. I know a man from here who is doing that for someone he met online whom he has not yet met in person. He is waiting for her love to fall on him and he is suffering emotionally because she is very careful not to show how she feels about him. We women have to understand that men are visual and our face and body have to appeal to their fancy before they will even consider us a match. And Christian men, especially carnal ones, are not immune to this. We just have to wait patiently for the man who will find us attractive enough to be his wife. In my experience, I find that most of the time, men do not find me attractive until they spend more time with me in person and observe me in action. I once had a male student who confessed to one of my colleagues that I become more and more attractive the longer he looked intently at me. :laugh: That only goes to show that I am a wallflower who is rarely noticed by anyone unless he is looking specifically for me. We really have to wait patiently for the man who will find us attractive enough to be his mate. I, myself, do not want to be a Leah who pined for her husband Jacob's love all her married life. Even after her rival sister died, Jacob still loved Rachel more than Leah and his two concubines. Imagine that. Three women could not replace one dead beloved woman even though they were doing the marital act with him. So, I will just wait for a man to make his first move. Why should I break my heart over a man who does not prefer me? And contrary to what a lot of men here say in their profiles that they want to find a Ruth because they are Boaz, I would not even dare write them to ask them to consider me or vet me. Why? Because the Ruth Love Quest Theory is only applicable to a man who would have shown a woman some caring attention first. After all, Boaz had shown such honey sweet kindness to Ruth first and for several times for a prolonged period of time before Ruth shamelessly proposed marriage to him. In this case, I gather that Boaz fancied Ruth for himself but initially thought that she preferred a man much younger than him for herself. Only when she had shown family loyalty by asking him to marry her to preserve her dead husband's property did he have the courage to do what was necessary to make her his wife. Doing a Ruth is not advisable when the man we fancy do not fancy us. Ruth went through the whole Boaz hunting process because she knew from experience based on his previous behavior towards her that HE WAS VERY MUCH INTO HER AND HAD WANTED HER FOR HIMSELF. If all we have for allure is Godly character, we have to wait patiently for the man God made us for. Because only that kind of man will find us good enough for him to be his mate. We just have to pray to the LORD that He will cause our paths to meet. May God bless you, my sister. And don't worry about your love life. God is writing your love story. Trust in Him. Post Reply
kalekye View Profile History	Hi! just wondering Posted : 25 Jul, 2014 07:35 AM hello everyone....am kalekye frm kenya n all I believe in is patience, yeah I said patience n wait for de Lords time! Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! just wondering Posted : 10 Aug, 2014 09:44 PM Hi, Thank for the reply and also your story :-) It encourages me. Yes we have to surrender everything including our life partner to God. God's love is more than enough for me, I just do my best here, also wanna be Esther :-) while waiting my godly man we can draw closer to the Lord, do what he wants us to do, and please Him. I believe that He knows our desires. Just living by faith, " He gives what is so hard to give, He does what is so hard to do, and I believe when I live my life under the name of Jesus, I believe I can go where I've never gone and do what I've never done" Amen!!!! I believe also God still have many stock of godly men for me yay :applause: Do our part and He will do His part. So keep it up and be patient believe in His time. God Bless You too Sister :-) Post Reply