Author	Thread: My February Season
Sjoyw7 View Profile History	My February Season Posted : 10 Feb, 2018 08:28 AM Watching lovers pass you by? This season might be hard for others in terms of the issue of being single. Singleness is a time of being alone knowing yourself, discovering new skills, and a time to serve others using one's time, talent and opportunities. Singleness is not merely being unhappy. because being unhappy is a choice. When you know your identity you won't be greatly affected by the pressures of this world which may try to define who you are and deviate from the truth declaration of who and whose you are. I too encounter the same struggles but I have peace that makes me secure of what season I am into. Why I don't enter into a relationship that isn't sure and why I am waiting and enjoying my singleness to unwrap what the Lord wants me to learn as He prepares me to be the right person for my future mate. I may have had relationships before (serious and not) that are not truly what I expected to be or become but I am grateful for the lessons that the Lord taught me along the way. Why God allowed my heart to be broken so that He will be able to heal it and so that I will draw closer to Him. I learned that God may close some doors that are of old because He will open a new door so that the best could come. Once I am ready (only God knows,) then He will reveal the one for me. So I wait patiently and expectantly by His grace. I admit I sometimes long for the scenario of companionship but God did steady my heart as He guards it to not fall into the trap again. This time, I am praying for my rib mate, If the Lord wills, He will reveal in His time. Whether or not my desire will come to a reality, I know His plans are best for me. So I continue to focus on things that are not of this world and hope for the best to come. As I battle with my feelings, the truth in scripture must define it. I should not base my decisions with my feelings but in the truth (the word of God) J I am assured by Jesus� word in Mark 11:23-24 (A test of faith) � For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain. Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall NOT DOUBT in his heart, but shall BELIEVE that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith. Therefore, I say unto you, What things soever ye desire (accdg to God�s will), when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. My prayer is if it�s not yet God�s time to meet the man that Im praying for, May he give me patience and peace, remind me that He is in control, and that He will help me wait and endure until He says it�s time. only by His grace. God�s best= God�s will, God�s way, God�s time. Blessings! Post Reply
View Profile History	My February Season Posted : 3 Apr, 2018 10:46 PM Curious: If you're so content being single, and are using this time to serve others, improve yourself, etc., why are you on a dating site? Post Reply