Author	Thread: how to put the lords love in my life
carllorton View Profile History	how to put the lords love in my life Posted : 2 May, 2020 08:54 PM my names carl and i've been thanking about becoming a member of this site because i had the belief of our lord above and i wan't his love and blessing back in my life and i would appreaciate any advice about if i had a christian lady someone who is a guardian angle from the lord to guide me down the right path is this the right way to do it. Because my profile has been on this site for a couple weeks and i've recieved no messages. thank you Post Reply
View Profile History	how to put the lords love in my life Posted : 3 May, 2020 06:06 AM Hi Carl. I looked at your profile. You may get a better response if you add more details in the "about me" section. You could elaborate honestly on who you are as a person, your interests, your values, your beliefs, and how God is working in your life daily. You can also add a few more pictures of yourself. Don't hesitate to reach out to the ladies in a polite manner. - Warm regards from Canada Post Reply
View Profile History	how to put the lords love in my life Posted : 3 May, 2020 06:14 AM Hi. Nice to read your blurb. I'm a guy, so I"m giving you some 'guy' advice. Please don't go searching for a woman's guidance and love in the way you're requesting. You want to first go to Jesus Christ. When you make the woman the first priority, you may be setting yourself up for Satan to take advantage of your honest searching, and he may bring you 'someone' who has "lots" of advice, but will lead you away from God, not near Him. You may find out later she was using you for money, scamming, lying, manipulating, and has no relationship with God. Can God bring you a wonderful woman who can help you and sometimes guide you in the right direction? Yes, of course. But, you want to prepare yourself and get to know Jesus more, and then you will have more to offer your wife to be. Also, yes, search, and remain open, but don't go crazy on the first woman that takes interest in you. Just relax, and ask God to give you discernment about her. Thanks for your honesty. I am giving you advice so you can avoid a "lot of pitfalls" and toxic women. So, start reading the Bible daily (I suggest a Bible through a year devotional). Each day you're reading different parts of the Bible. It helps with discipline. Read a few Christian books on what to look for in a Godly marriage to a woman, it will help. Ask God to help you establish His relationship with you. God will honour your searching. And, don't look at all for the woman to 'complete' you. Look for God to give you these things, and your future wife will be a blessing not a completing. God will complete you, not a woman. This will help you avoid a lot of traps. I have to follow my own advice, as sometimes I desire a woman strongly, but God's way, God's time, God's help. Blessings, bro! Post Reply
View Profile History	how to put the lords love in my life Posted : 3 May, 2020 07:14 AM Like Zee mentioned, a woman can't change you entirely and they certainly can't "complete" you. You don't need to dwell on the past. Focus on the now. You have to let the Holy Spirit work in your heart so you can be a man that is ideal for a potential partner. The advice Zee provided is sound. To add to what he said about diving into books and the Bible, prayer is essential in this process. Pray that God will reveal the areas of your life where you can improve. The process won't be instant and can be a challenge but you must be courageous as a man should be. You don't need to go through this process alone. You should also surround yourself with peers that build you up instead of those that bring you down with negativity and vices (gambling, drunkenness, drugs, etc). This can be difficult to do during this CO-VID19 period, but you can contact churches near you and ask if they have small groups that you can join. Small group members can encourage you in your walk to transform your life. Many groups are hosting online video conference meetings at the moment. It's not a weakness to seek good counsel. My last word is that you have to avoid porn at all costs especially in times when you feel lonely or alone. Porn will distort what God intended in your life. When you have an urge to watch a porn video, set up a defense mechanism to do something else. For instance, you may call up a friend you haven't kept in touch for a long time and do catch-up. Don't stay idle! Post Reply
carllorton View Profile History	how to put the lords love in my life Posted : 3 May, 2020 09:38 AM Thank you dave for your response i'm working on that right now but it's hard to put in words things about me. But I'm trying and your advice is helpful Post Reply
carllorton View Profile History	how to put the lords love in my life Posted : 3 May, 2020 09:46 AM Thank you ZeetoZee for your advice it was well taken and i do try to read something new every day i use my great grandmothers bible every day and this morning when i opened it up it was Pslams and i read two pages of it. And i don't plan on falling for the first lady who shows interest in me because we'll have to at least attend quite a few church functions together to know if we will be compatable with each other. god bless you for your message Post Reply