Author	Thread: Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please.
Admin	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 25 Feb, 2009 06:15 PM I just need to know what other peoples opinion on this subject is. I personally am legally still married, we are separated and are in the process of a divorce. What are some of your opinions on dating a married man or woman in this situation. If the man or woman says to the other their marriage is over, are your free to start dating? Or do your have to wait until your divorce is final? Post Reply
1morethyme View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 05:25 AM Not an option...separated or in the process of a divorce still equals married! Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 07:49 AM dear 1more, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
neverforsaken View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 28 Feb, 2010 11:13 PM Yes God is and should be in control. In my opinion dating is not biblical. I believe in waiting on HIM first. Post Reply
arkgal View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 2 Mar, 2010 07:08 PM Here is what I think!!! Depends on how long they have been seperated! 3 months or 2 years a long difference. God says man can give woman a letter of divorce and I believe seperation is that letter but in some states you have to be seperated for a year before final divorce so I would say date! Man laws of seperation are you can do what you want and it is not cheating. However I would have be sexual with a dating parthner in that time cause it is clear cut no sex before marriage!!! So date if seperated but remember that you need to make sure it has been atleast 6 months of seperation!!! This ensures you are not the rebound person!!! Just my opinion! Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 2 Mar, 2010 08:08 PM dear never and ark, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 3 Mar, 2010 01:21 AM We know what divorce and separated mean. If I understand it right, Rom. 14:23 says that if you doubt that what you are doing is right then it is your own conscience that convicts you of sin. Doubt your actions a little bit in front of God and see what He says. Post Reply
jrfan View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 11:09 AM well for me,if you are legaly seperated ,then why wouldn't it be okay to date. If you think its not biblical,then lets go one step further,the word says that the only ground for a divorce is adultery. so you think in Gods eyes its wrong? whats wrong is if you have premairital sex,then it would be wrong. Now if you are seperated and neither of you have not comited a sexual sin then,i don't think you should date. just my thoughts God Bless Post Reply
becauseofgrace View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 12:26 PM I have read many of your opinons and I love the scriptures you all have posted.. Remember that we are all the Bride of Christ. We are in the times of preparation for His return.. This is the time for us to be prepared and some times it is very tough for those of us who have been married. I personally, was in an abusive marriage with a man who had many addictions.. to drugs and pornagraphy. He was the adulterer.. Praise God He gives me forgiveness. Jesus also fled from times of danger except when it was time for Him to die on our behalf. I , praise Him, have also been healed from the pain of this marriage and have remained friends with my ex.. and I pray for him. And God has given me a new song to sing Psalms 40:1-5. When I am lonely , I remember that is was Jesus that brought me grace and forgiveness. It is the Holy Spirit that prays for us when we are tired and don't know what to pray. I remember the overwhelming peace I have when I choose daily to be in His hands. (in obediance) The Love He has for me and all of us is so much more than anything I can comprehend. Finally , I hope this is helpful Philipians 4:6-9 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thangsgiving, let your requests be made known to God; vs 7 and the peace of God which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts an minds through Christ Jesus. vs 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble , whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if ther is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy, meditate on these things vs 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of Peace will be with you. Amen? Post Reply
becauseofgrace View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 01:03 AM Oh! A Great Read for anyone single is "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a married person that is separated and or in process of divorce.... need opinions on this subject. Honest responses please. Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 06:43 PM You are legally married until you are legally divorced in God's eyes and mans. I was separated for 4 and half years. I did not date nor did I entertain the thought of it. I stood and believed for restoration for my marriage. My husband asked me for divorce and I agreed with it only then was I able to date. I am not attacking you or anyelse because in the end we are all accountable to the Lord for all we say or do. Blessings. Post Reply

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