Author	Thread: When the new wears off....
Admin	When the new wears off.... Posted : 28 Jul, 2009 07:42 PM I have a question... Most men I meet like to lay it on thick in the beginning and do all the things that make a woman say "awww". They send you sweet text messages, call you for no reason but to tell you hello and ask about your day, send you flowers and always want to be close. BUT THEN... there comes a time around the ummm 3rd or 4th month of dating where they just know they have you... everything stops. Now see... when that happens to me, it leaves me wondering; did I do something wrong? When I ask that question I suddenly turn into an "insecure woman". Then the relationship starts to break down and I feel betrayed. Why? I think if you do those things in the beginning you should be consistant and do them through out your relationship. If not, it tells me you are trying to be something your not. Why can't men just be themselves, be consistant about who they are and let us like them for themselves? I know I for one don't need to be impressed to like a man. Post Reply
View Profile History	When the new wears off.... Posted : 30 Jul, 2009 05:23 PM Nope.. I never said all men, I said most men. I know not all men are like that, I have met quiet a few that were consistant. Sorry I didn't make that clear up there. I was just tossing out a thought, seeing if it is something that happens a lot or maybe just to me. I just think if everyone was "real" and quit trying to be something they are not, then maybe my dating life would be a little easier. :winksmile: Maybe I need to work on not being so critical of these types of people. I know everyone wants to put their best foot forward, but when you can't keep it up, it is a dissapointment. Kind of like a battery. Charged up and fresh it works for you, when it dies so does the quality of the charge to eventually fizzle to nothing. OH random thought!!.... Maybe I should give up batteries and go for the 120 v plug ins. :ROFL: I haven't dated since my divorce, I'm still looking. (I am just remembering what dating life was like prior to my last marriage.) Post Reply

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