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looking4the1andonly View Profile History	Does childrens race play a role in your choice? Posted : 28 Aug, 2011 09:24 PM Does childrens race play a role in your choice? Here is the jest of it, I have 2 beautiful brown children, me I'm pale as snow white, so would the race of my children prevent a relationship from further developing? Thank you- Post Reply
View Profile History	Does childrens race play a role in your choice? Posted : 29 Aug, 2011 09:01 AM Hi Looking4: I know you posted this in "ask a guy". Since no person has yet to respond, I thought I would get the ball rolling... I suspect there are some men who might negatively judge YOU and perhaps your children and be "put of" by the idea they were fathered by a man of another race thus shying away from a relationship with you. Oh well! Having said that, have you really lost out on anything should such a man reject you based on those reasons? I certainly don't think so...and from reading your profile it doesn't appear that you do either, lol. No women I know would want to be with a man that doesn't accept her children regardless of what color they are. Sadly, the reality is, skin color has long divided people and the prejudice of racism is world-wide even today. ~O'Shea~ Post Reply
looking4the1andonly View Profile History	Does childrens race play a role in your choice? Posted : 29 Aug, 2011 05:30 PM Thank you for your reply. It is something I'm aware of that is why I include it in my profile but it still amazes me how many people never make it to the second paragraph. Thank you again for your reply. Post Reply

View Profile History	Does childrens race play a role in your choice? Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 12:58 AM ok so the biggest problem is not the children!!! it is the childrens Father ( guys being the hunter/gatherer instinct are very territorial )....How involved is He with the children? if He is nowhere to be found.... no problems..... is He away,prison?military tour? huge problems may arise?... is He hanging around all the time ? maybe even attempting to rekindle the relationship?nothing but problems! ugh!!! what guy in His right mind is gonna attempt to compete with that? So maybe add a lil "other parent relationship explaination " section to Your profile and that oughta help alot. hope this helps... Post Reply
View Profile History	Does childrens race play a role in your choice? Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 11:55 AM Seriously. Why would I want to choose to go from doing my own thing to raising another mans kids regardless of skin color? There ya go. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does childrens race play a role in your choice? Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 10:15 PM I'm in the process of still spirtually learning things right now. But I do belive the Bible says, we are all created equally in His image. So no race would not matter to me, and it shouldn't matter to anyone else. But racism is still now even in 2011 an on going problem. Post Reply